The love I have for my cousin is beyond a love I could feel for anyone else. My cousin Katherine is Autistic, she behaves still like a child even though she is 21 years old. She is the most innocent, loving, caring girl I know. She truly means the world to me, and I will always be grateful to call her family. It has been a strong life goal of mine to work with disabled and gifted children, and I plan to accomplish those goals. Therefore, to also be able to obtain my life meanwhile helping gifted children, I have chosen Nursing as a career.
Nursing can exhibit all aspects, I could save a gifted child’s life if necessary, and I can work with gifted children just like I always wanted to. So many gifted children are abused or bullied just for being who they are. But why? It’s because they are God’s most special people, and they are cherished in the eyes of those who care. I had the opportunity to go to high school with my cousin Katherine, she was in the special education program that allowed her to stay in school until she turned 21. During that time numerous people bullied her for her medical conditions: autism, scoliosis, and lazy eye. This broke my heart, and I did everything in my power to protect her, I just couldn’t allow for it. I just couldn’t understand why others didn’t see the beauty in her as I did.
The older I got the more I understood, I understood that some people just have no love in their hearts, but luckily enough I have enough in mine. Katherine and I have gone through a lot together, she is the first person I go to see at family events, or when I go over to visit her. And she always gives the warmest hugs. By becoming a nurse, I can better take care of her, and more children like her. It will allow me to work with more gifted children, also protecting their mental and physical beings. From the time I was little, I have always loved children and I have always had a special place in my heart for gifted/disabled children.
I have continued to open opportunities for myself, and as soon as I turn 18, I will be able to be a caregiver for my cousin Katherine. But to me, it’s not a job, I will be able to spend more quality time with her and take her to do the things she has never been able to do. Unfortunately, she didn’t have parents capable of taking care of her and her older sister. Both my cousins lived with my grandma, and she wanted to make sure when she was gone that they would still both be taken care of, which led to my mother becoming financially responsible for them, therefore they will always be safe with us. Katherine is an incredibly smart young lady and is extremely capable of many things. She can cook with assistance, clean, do laundry, and so many other amazing things. None of this would have ever been possible if it wasn’t for the school, my grandmother, and my family.
The key to making a good connection with gifted children is to be interested in what they are interested in. It only takes a small amount of time to learn about someone, and you can do it just by watching them or having a simple conversation. Katherine enjoys watching Paw Patrol, eating cheese, and wearing bright colors. I learned those things just by going over to take her a birthday present. It doesn’t take much to genuinely care about someone and their emotional needs. She enjoys going to the park, playing outside, and going to the store to look at new toys. And as soon as I can, we will be doing those all the time. Luckily, I was able to work with the gifted children in my school after Katherine graduated from her program. I even wrote some stories about them for the school newspaper. Gifted children will forever hold a special place in my heart, and I can’t wait to be able to work with them every day.