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Anthony Yarde

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I was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, where I graduated with honors from Thomas Jefferson High School in 2005. After attending Stony Brook University for a year, I moved to Georgia for work before returning to Brooklyn, where I worked two part-time jobs for five years. In 2013, I returned to school but chose to join the U.S. Army in February 2015, a decision that profoundly shaped my life. Over the past decade, I have served with dedication, rising to the rank of Staff Sergeant. My military journey has taken me across the globe, including Fort Jackson, South Carolina; Fort Sill, Oklahoma; multiple bases in South Korea; El Paso, Texas; Saudi Arabia; Germany; Florida; and North Carolina. My military service has instilled in me a deep sense of discipline, resilience, and adaptability, which I apply both in my career and personal life. As a single father to a 13-year-old son, I balance the demands of military service with raising my child and supporting his academic and extracurricular pursuits. I enjoy cooking, lifting weights, and watching psychological thrillers, finding joy in both personal growth and relaxation. Currently pursuing a degree in psychology, I plan to use this education to help those in need through government or private social programs. Though halfway through completing 20 years of service to retire at 48, I am determined to continue making a meaningful impact, both in and out of uniform.

Education

Keiser University

Bachelor's degree program
2013 - 2027
  • Majors:
    • Psychology, General

Stony Brook University

Bachelor's degree program
2005 - 2006
  • Majors:
    • Electrical and Computer Engineering

Miscellaneous

  • Desired degree level:

    Master's degree program

  • Graduate schools of interest:

  • Transfer schools of interest:

  • Majors of interest:

    • Clinical, Counseling and Applied Psychology
  • Not planning to go to medical school
  • Career

    • Dream career field:

      Military

    • Dream career goals:

      Inspire and motivate as many service members as possible and make Master Sergeant before Retirement

      Sports

      Football

      Junior Varsity
      2001 – 20021 year

      Baseball

      Junior Varsity
      2002 – 20031 year

      Soccer

      Junior Varsity
      1998 – 19991 year

      Public services

      • Volunteering

        Kiwanis Camp Casey — Picking up trash and taking it to dumpsters
        2015 – 2016

      Future Interests

      Advocacy

      Politics

      Volunteering

      Philanthropy

      Entrepreneurship

      Goobie-Ramlal Education Scholarship
      Growing up in the late 1980s in the heart of Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn, was like being planted in rocky soil, but even the toughest conditions can produce growth with enough care and determination. I was the first-born son of a Jamaican immigrant family of four, and my childhood was defined by struggle, love, and the relentless pursuit of a better life. My family’s sacrifices and resilience, coupled with my own self-taught determination, have shaped me into a young man who dreams of escaping hardship and building something lasting for myself, my family, and future generations. Reading and writing weren’t skills handed to me, they were battles I fought on my own. My mom, grandmother, and grandfather loved me deeply, but none of them had the patience or know-how to teach me the basics. I remember flipping through dictionaries and encyclopedias, sounding out words and stumbling through sentences because I knew practice was the only way forward. Every day I wanted to give up, but I would think of my family’s unwavering belief in me. Teaching myself to read and write was a lesson in perseverance and independence, and it planted a seed of confidence that I could overcome anything. My mom is my rock, holding our family together through sheer willpower. Despite everything we lacked; money, resources, even a clear roadmap for the future, she gave us something priceless: unconditional love and the belief that we could rise above our circumstances. My grandfather, with his grease-stained hands and unshakable work ethic, showed me the value of labor and pride in one’s craft. He would fix cars in the cold, heat, and rain, always with a quiet determination that I didn’t understand as a child but would always emulate. My grandmother, wise and steady, taught me resilience and ambition; qualities she said would carry me further than any amount of money if I used them well. What my family lacked in wealth, they made up for in heart. They showed me the importance of hard work, valuing and taking care of possessions, and never giving up on what you want. Their sacrifices have inspired me to be better for the security and independence it brings. I’ve taken their lessons to heart and implemented them in my own life. I’ve managed to become a Staff Sergeant in the U.S. Army all while staying focused on my goal of earning a college education. Though I still have more to accomplish, these steps are proof that the values they instilled in me have already begun to shape my future. As a first-generation college-bound student I know that I’m carrying the hopes and dreams of the generations before me. My education isn’t just for me; it’s for my family, the people who loved me through every stumble, and for my son who needs to witness someone set the example. When I graduate, I look forward to giving back to them in tangible ways. I want to give my mom a vacation and be able to take care of my grandparents without worrying about the cost, and ensure my family has everything they need to live comfortably. My story isn’t just one of struggle; it’s one of love, resilience, and the power of dreams. My family’s sacrifices are the foundation for everything I do, and I’m determined to build a life that honors them. The challenges I’ve faced have only strengthened my resolve to succeed, and I’m ready to take what I’ve learned and turn it into something lasting; something that will inspire others to do the same.
      Sean Carroll's Mindscape Big Picture Scholarship
      The quest to understand the universe is far more than an intellectual curiosity; it’s a vital pursuit with profound implications for humanity. From practical breakthroughs to groundbreaking scientific insights, exploring the cosmos has the power to revolutionize technology, medicine, energy systems, and beyond. This essay delves into why deepening our knowledge of the universe is essential and explores how these discoveries can shape our world. The sheer vastness and complexity of the universe make it a boundless laboratory for unraveling the mysteries of existence, matter, and energy. By studying celestial phenomena, scientists uncover the principles of physics, chemistry, and mathematics that not only govern the cosmos but also influence life on Earth. Organizations like NASA and renowned academic institutions such as MIT and Stanford are at the forefront of exploring enigmatic concepts like black holes, dark matter, and the expansion of the universe, steadily increasing our understanding. Space exploration offers substantial benefits that have tangible impacts on life on Earth. One of the most significant advantages is the development of new technologies. Space missions have driven the creation of advanced imaging systems, robotics, and telecommunications tools that have revolutionized various industries. For example, satellite technology has reshaped global communication, made precise weather forecasting possible, and improved navigation systems that millions rely on daily. In addition to technological innovation, space research has also contributed significantly to advancements in medicine. Studies conducted in microgravity environments, such as those aboard the International Space Station, have provided unique insights into human biology. These findings have led to improved treatments for conditions like osteoporosis, muscle loss, and cardiovascular diseases. Furthermore, space exploration plays a crucial role in advancing energy solutions. Observing the sun and its fusion processes has inspired innovations in renewable energy technologies, particularly solar power. Ongoing research into these processes holds the promise of unlocking nuclear fusion, which could provide humanity with clean and nearly limitless energy. The exploration of space challenges existing theories and fosters the development of new scientific models. For instance, studying the extreme conditions near black holes tests the boundaries of Einstein’s theory of relativity, offering opportunities to bridge the gap between relativity and quantum mechanics. Such research could eventually lead to a unified theory of quantum gravity, revolutionizing our understanding of the universe at both macroscopic and microscopic levels. Equally significant is the investigation of dark matter and dark energy, which together make up approximately 95% of the universe. Unraveling the mysteries surrounding these phenomena could bring about paradigm shifts in our understanding of fundamental forces and particles. The implications of these discoveries could extend across various scientific disciplines, redefining what we know about the fabric of reality itself. The study of the universe has far-reaching implications for other scientific fields as well. In astrobiology, the search for life beyond Earth has already expanded our knowledge of the conditions necessary for life. The discovery of extremophiles, organisms that thrive in extreme environments, has reshaped our understanding of biology and led to advancements in genetics and microbiology. In geology and climate research, insights gained from studying geological and atmospheric conditions of other planets have enhanced our knowledge of Earth’s systems. This research is crucial for predicting natural disasters and developing strategies to mitigate the effects of climate change. By learning from other celestial bodies, scientists gain a deeper understanding of Earth’s past, present, and future. Space exploration drives advancements in materials science and artificial intelligence, both of which have groundbreaking applications. Research into the extreme conditions of space has led to the development of advanced materials used in spacecraft and protective gear. These innovations have also been adapted for medical applications, including surgical tools and implants that improve patient outcomes. Space missions generate vast amounts of data, which has accelerated the development of artificial intelligence and machine learning technologies. These tools are increasingly applied in healthcare, enhancing diagnostics, drug discovery, and personalized medicine. Moreover, the study of quantum mechanics, inspired by cosmological phenomena, is advancing quantum computing. This emerging field holds the potential to revolutionize industries by offering unprecedented data processing capabilities. Exploring the universe could lead to breakthroughs that transform how humanity generates energy, manages resources, and even travels across the stars. Observing the fusion reactions in stars has already provided valuable insights into the development of clean energy solutions. By mimicking these processes, scientists hope to achieve nuclear fusion on Earth, a breakthrough that could revolutionize energy production. Another promising innovation is space-based solar power, which involves collecting solar energy in space and transmitting it to Earth. This concept could offer a sustainable solution to global energy demands. Additionally, advances in particle physics and quantum field theory could one day enable scientists to manipulate protons, electrons, and other subatomic particles to create matter. Such breakthroughs would address resource scarcity by allowing the creation of essential materials from basic building blocks. The discovery of life beyond Earth would fundamentally alter humanity’s perspective on its place in the universe. Missions to Mars, Europa, and other distant worlds are already searching for biosignatures, or chemical traces indicative of life. Such discoveries would not only transform our understanding of biology and evolution but also inspire new biotechnologies and ecological systems. Detecting extraterrestrial life could open entirely new fields of research and offer profound insights into the potential for life in extreme and diverse environments. Achieving these ambitious goals requires a collaborative, interdisciplinary approach. Progress will depend on integrating expertise in physics, biology, engineering, and computer science. Partnerships between organizations such as NASA, the European Space Agency (ESA), and private companies like SpaceX are essential for accelerating innovation. Investments in advanced propulsion systems, such as ion drives and nuclear engines, will be necessary to make interstellar travel achievable. At the same time, creating self-sustaining habitats for long-term space missions will demand breakthroughs in biotechnology and ecological engineering. Equally important is fostering a skilled workforce through investments in STEM education, ensuring the next generation is equipped to tackle the challenges of space exploration. Understanding the universe is more than just an intellectual pursuit; it is a strategic effort with evolutionary potential. From revolutionizing energy and medicine to reshaping our grasp of reality, the possibilities are boundless. By prioritizing research, fostering innovation, and inspiring future scientists and engineers, humanity can unlock the secrets of the cosmos and shape a future defined by discovery and progress.
      Black Excellence Scholarship
      According to TC 7-22.7, The Noncommissioned Officer Guide, a key attribute of servant leadership is putting the welfare of soldiers, peers, and subordinates above one's own while fostering their growth and success. I embody "striving for servant leadership" by prioritizing the needs of others, leading by example, and dedicating myself to continuous self-improvement. During my 10 years in the Army, I consistently demonstrated servant leadership by placing the development and well-being of my soldiers above my interests. For example, I often stayed late to ensure my team was prepared for missions, took the time to mentor junior soldiers, and fostered a sense of camaraderie that enabled us to succeed as a cohesive unit. These actions align with the principles outlined in TC 7-22.7, which emphasizes NCOs must lead with competence, character, and commitment. By embodying these traits, I ensured my soldiers were mission-ready while also growing as individuals. As a single parent raising a 13-year-old child, I extend the principles of servant leadership to my home life. I focus on creating a supportive environment where my child feels valued and empowered to achieve his goals. For instance, I actively participate in his education, balancing my demanding schedule of work, school, and parenting to ensure he receives the guidance and support he needs. This reflects the idea that leaders must model resilience and prioritize the needs of those they serve, whether in a military or personal context. Returning to school while managing these responsibilities further exemplifies my commitment to servant leadership and self-improvement. By pursuing higher education, I aim to enhance my knowledge and skills to better serve both my family and professional community. This dedication demonstrates the importance of lifelong learning and adaptability to those I lead and mentor. In all these roles, I strive to embody servant leadership by fostering trust, prioritizing the welfare of others, and setting a positive example. Whether mentoring soldiers, guiding my child, or investing in my education, I consistently align my actions with the principles of selflessness, growth, and resilience. This commitment ensures that I not only lead effectively but also inspire others to achieve their fullest potential. Risk-taking, though essential for growth, has often been an area where I lean toward caution, due to my life experiences. My unwillingness to meet new people or engage in random conversations stems from a deeply ingrained preference for predictability and control. Having navigated the consequences of alcoholism, including attending Alcoholics Anonymous meetings and the Army’s Substance Abuse Program, and experiencing a divorce while still managing child support, I have learned that small missteps can lead to significant consequences. These lessons have shaped my aversion to unnecessary risks, as walking a tightrope often feels like the safer, more responsible path. However, I recognize the nature of risk is multifaceted which I have embraced successfully. Joining the Army and buying a house involved calculated risks that required courage and foresight. Similarly, pursuing a college degree at Keiser University while balancing financial responsibilities and a full-time career represents another calculated risk. These experiences remind me that stepping into the unknown can lead to positive outcomes when approached wisely. Still, as a single parent raising my 13-year-old son and managing competing priorities, I need a clear strategy to mitigate the risks to my sanity, time, and finances. Plan for Improvement: 1. Define Purposeful Risks Distinguish between impulsive and calculated risks. Focus on actions that align with my personal and professional goals, such as advancing my education in psychology to create more stability for myself and my son. 2. Set Clear Boundaries Establish boundaries for my time and energy. Allocate specific hours for work, study, and parenting, ensuring no area overwhelms the others. Budget for tuition and other school expenses to prevent unnecessary financial strain. 3. Practice Gradual Exposure Take small, manageable steps toward challenging my comfort zone. Begin by participating in student forums or networking events related to psychology to build confidence and connections. 4. Leverage Support Systems Utilize resources such as financial aid, academic counseling, and support from family or friends. Sharing responsibilities, like childcare, will reduce the burden on me. 5. Monitor Progress Reflect weekly on accomplishments and setbacks to refine my approach. Assess whether each risk contributes meaningfully to my goals while remaining within my limits. By managing these risks methodically, I aim to foster growth while protecting my well-being and priorities. Balancing ambition with responsibility ensures my path remains both courageous and sustainable.
      Jerrye Chesnes Memorial Scholarship
      Returning to school as a single father with a full-time career has been one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences of my life. Balancing my responsibilities as a parent, soldier, and student has required perseverance, time management, and a deep commitment to both my family and my personal growth. One of the primary challenges I face is raising my 13-year-old son while pursuing my education. He depends on me for guidance, support, and stability. This means helping him with his homework, ensuring he stays on track academically, and taking him to his taekwondo classes, which are an important part of his personal growth and discipline. While these responsibilities are fulfilling, they require careful planning and energy, especially after long days of work or study. In addition to being a parent, my career in the U.S. Army demands my attention around the clock. Twice each month, I must work 24-hour shifts as part of my unit's schedule. These shifts disrupt my routine and limit the time available for schoolwork and parenting. Despite this, I have learned to adapt by using breaks and evenings efficiently, often staying up late or waking early to complete assignments. Managing a full-time career while taking college courses also comes with the difficulty of finding balance. My daily tasks include meeting professional expectations, preparing for exams, and completing projects, all while ensuring my son feels cared for and entertained. It is important to me that he does not feel neglected, so I make it a priority to spend quality time with him, finding creative ways to have fun together. Whether watching a movie, cooking a meal, or playing a game, I strive to maintain a strong bond with him despite my busy schedule. Financial challenges compound these responsibilities. Saving for emergencies, vacations, birthday celebrations, and Christmas gifts for my son and other family members is a constant struggle. Tuition and school-related expenses further stretch my resources, adding to the $43,000 I already owe in student loans. While the thought of increasing this debt is daunting, I remind myself that earning my degree is an investment in our future. I have also taken steps to alleviate financial stress by donating plasma twice a week for extra income and meticulously budgeting for both necessities and occasional treats. The mental and emotional toll of this journey cannot be overlooked. The weight of my commitments, coupled with the pressure to succeed, can be overwhelming at times. There are moments when exhaustion sets in, and self-doubt creeps in as I question whether I can manage it all. However, I have learned to combat these feelings by focusing on my long-term goals and leaning on the resilience and discipline I have gained through my military service. Ultimately, returning to school while balancing these demands has taught me invaluable lessons in perseverance and adaptability. It has shown me the importance of time management, creative problem-solving, and self-care. While the road has not been easy, I remain determined to succeed; not just for myself but for my son, who inspires me every day to keep pushing forward. This journey is more than a challenge; it is a testament to the lengths I am willing to go to build a better future for us both.
      Jackie Hudson Memorial Scholarship
      As a Staff Sergeant in the U.S. Army, my primary way of giving back has been through mentorship and advice. Serving in a leadership role, I have had the privilege to guide soldiers under my command in several critical areas of their personal and professional lives. I have shared knowledge on financial literacy, helping others understand credit cards, navigate home-buying with VA loans, and make informed decisions about saving and investing. I have also offered support on how to adapt to new units where diverse backgrounds, communication styles, and cultural differences can create challenges. Beyond finances and military integration, I have counseled on parenting challenges, particularly for soldiers who, like me, balance the responsibilities of raising children with their military duties. Whether helping a soldier progress in their career, adjust to military life, or find resources for personal struggles, I strive to be a dependable source of guidance and encouragement. Additionally, I have supported my family through financial challenges, extending assistance where needed. Over the last year, I helped my mother by covering $1,500 for a loan tied to repairs caused by my youngest sister, who has Prader-Willi Syndrome. I also contributed $1,000 to my grandparents to offset income lost due to a house fire that displaced tenants. These actions, while financially demanding, reflect my commitment to giving back in ways that extend beyond the Army. My financial circumstances are best described as modest and carefully managed. Although the Army provides a steady income, it is not substantial enough to eliminate the need for strategic financial planning. I rely on credit cards to cover shortfalls, and while I prioritize saving and investing, it is often a challenge to do so consistently. My ability to become a homeowner is largely thanks to the VA loan program, which allowed me to purchase a home with no down payment. As a single father of a 13-year-old son, my expenses are significant. His orthodontic treatment costs $195 per month until December 2025, and his taekwondo lessons add another $150 monthly expense. His rapid growth means frequent updates to his wardrobe. These commitments, while rewarding, place considerable strain on my budget. To supplement my income, I donate plasma twice a week, which provides a small but necessary financial boost. Additionally, my pursuit of a bachelor's degree in psychology at Keiser University has increased my student loan debt to $43,000, with more to come as I progress through my program. Despite these challenges, I remain determined to balance my financial responsibilities with my educational goals. I view this investment in higher education as a path toward greater opportunities for both my son and myself, ensuring a brighter and more stable future.
      Good Vibes Only Scholarship in Memory of C. Spoon
      I have chosen to pursue a degree in psychology because it is a powerful tool for addressing human behavior, emotions, and systemic challenges. Psychology offers a pathway to healing and empowerment, particularly for Black, Indigenous, and People of Color (BIPOC), whose communities face unique obstacles that hinder emotional well-being, economic stability, and personal growth. My passion lies in creating systems that foster awareness, resilience, and change in these communities. Children learn virtually everything from the adults in their lives and the strangers they observe. Many adults, however, are unaware of how their unresolved traumas, emotional struggles, and behaviors affect those around them. This lack of awareness perpetuates cycles of depression, anger, violence, and other destructive patterns. At the same time, it stifles positive traits like empathy, ambition, and resilience. Psychology provides tools to help adults gain an objective view of their behaviors and their ripple effects on families and communities. By doing so, we can break harmful cycles and create a foundation for healthier, more vibrant futures. BIPOC communities face additional barriers that compound emotional and psychological challenges. A lack of access to financial resources, generational wealth, and opportunities for ownership—whether in businesses, land, or intellectual property—creates a cycle of disempowerment. The absence of financial literacy education leaves many individuals ill-equipped to manage finances, build wealth, or invest in their futures. Without these skills, families struggle to provide their children with stability and opportunities, leading to increased stress and feelings of hopelessness. Access to enriching extracurricular activities and community resources is also limited for many BIPOC communities. Programs like home economics, woodwork, skiing, and coding, along with access to advanced computers, large libraries, and free community pools, provide critical opportunities for personal growth and emotional resilience. When these resources are unavailable, communities are deprived of avenues to develop essential skills and confidence, which affects both individual and collective well-being. Mental health services tailored to BIPOC communities can bridge these gaps. Counseling and therapy offer tools for emotional regulation, helping individuals address stress, depression, and unresolved trauma. These services can also normalize discussions about mental health, breaking stigmas and encouraging more people to seek support. When paired with resources that teach financial literacy, entrepreneurship, and wealth-building, mental health services can empower individuals to break free from cycles of poverty and instability. This combination fosters a culture of self-reliance, resilience, and community upliftment. The ripple effects of such change are profound. Adults who manage their emotions effectively become positive role models for children, demonstrating empathy, collaboration, and ambition. Children in turn develop healthier emotional regulation and a stronger sense of purpose. This trickle-down effect strengthens families and creates a more empowered community capable of challenging systemic inequities and building generational wealth. Psychology has the power to foster awareness and encourage introspection, which are key to lasting change. When individuals gain the tools to understand their behaviors and emotions, they are better equipped to transform not only their lives but also the lives of those around them. For BIPOC communities, access to mental health services, paired with resources that promote financial and personal growth, represents a path to healing and thriving. Ultimately, my decision to study psychology is driven by the belief that addressing emotional well-being and systemic challenges together can create profound change. By equipping individuals and communities with the tools to manage emotions, build wealth, and cultivate stability, we can create a legacy of resilience and opportunity for future generations. For BIPOC communities, this journey represents not just healing but also the chance to redefine their futures and thrive on their own terms.
      Bright Lights Scholarship
      My plans for the future are grounded in my dedication to service, personal growth, and providing for my family. Having completed 10 years in the U.S. Army, I am committed to serving another 10 years to achieve military retirement. As a Staff Sergeant, I strive to reach the rank of Master Sergeant, a goal that reflects my desire to lead, mentor, and contribute meaningfully to the Army. This milestone will not only mark the culmination of a fulfilling military career but also lay the foundation for my post-retirement endeavors. After retiring from the Army at the age of forty-eight, I plan to transition to a quieter, more peaceful life. As a homeowner, I aim to return to my first home in El Paso, Texas, or settle in a warm, coastal area that offers tranquility and distance from the hustle and bustle of city life. This environment will allow me to reflect on my accomplishments and prepare for the next chapter in my career. My psychology degree will play a pivotal role in my post-military plans. I am deeply committed to helping others and intend to pursue a career as a student counselor, social worker, or in a related field within social programs. Whether supporting students, families, or communities, I am driven by the desire to make a positive impact and contribute to society. This aligns with my personal values and the skills I have honed during my time in the Army, such as leadership, resilience, and empathy. Additionally, my role as a parent is central to my future plans. My 13-year-old son’s aspirations and well-being are priorities. Whether he chooses college, vocational school, or certification programs, I am committed to supporting him in charting his own path and achieving his goals. This adaptability mirrors my broader philosophy: life plans should be flexible to accommodate change, as rigid adherence can lead to unnecessary stress or a sense of failure. Retirement from the Army will not mean stepping away from productivity. I plan to either return to school for a master’s degree or immediately enter the workforce to leverage my bachelor’s degree. My goal is to build a second career that allows me to serve others while providing financial security for my family. By the time I reach sixty-eight, I hope to retire fully from two careers, enjoy a comfortable life, and create opportunities for my future grandchildren that my son may not have experienced. This scholarship is instrumental in achieving my goals. It will alleviate the financial burden of furthering my education, whether that involves pursuing a master’s degree or obtaining certifications to enhance my professional qualifications. With the scholarship’s support, I can focus on excelling academically and preparing for a successful second career, ensuring a stable and rewarding future for my family. Moreover, it will enable me to model the values of hard work, perseverance, and continuous learning for my son, inspiring him to pursue his aspirations with confidence. Ultimately, this scholarship represents an investment in my potential to serve others, whether as a military leader, counselor, social worker, or parent. It aligns with my vision of a purposeful and fulfilling life, dedicated to both personal growth and the betterment of those around me.
      Mental Health Profession Scholarship
      Overcoming a mental health challenge, such as alcohol abuse, requires resilience, self-reflection, and a willingness to embrace change. My journey with alcohol began in my early adulthood and has been intertwined with significant life events, including my time in the U.S. Army, a divorce, and the purchase of my first home. These experiences have shaped not only my struggles but also my growth and understanding of mental health. Between 2013 and 2016, I faced the height of my alcohol abuse. During my first year in the U.S. Army, while stationed in South Korea, my leadership recognized the impact alcohol was having on my performance and well-being. Without hesitation, my Company's First Sergeant ordered me to attend Alcoholics Anonymous meetings. The following year, they mandated my participation in the Army's Alcohol and Substance Abuse Program (ASAP) which became a pivotal step in my journey toward sobriety. By February 2016, I stopped drinking entirely, maintaining two years of complete sobriety. During this period, I gained clarity and a renewed sense of purpose, learning the importance of self-control and discipline. However, life is rarely linear. In 2018, after purchasing my first home and regaining a sense of personal freedom, I resumed drinking. This decision came after navigating the emotional toll of a divorce and the challenges of adjusting to new leadership. Unlike before, I now approach alcohol with greater awareness and responsibility. I choose to drink only at home, recognizing it as a safer and more controlled environment compared to social settings. Additionally, I have adopted a lifestyle that includes consuming foods aimed toward promoting liver and kidney health, reflecting my broader commitment to self-care and well-being. Supporting others and raising awareness for mental health challenges is a vital part of my journey. I believe that sharing personal stories can break down the stigma surrounding mental health and substance abuse. My experience with alcohol demonstrates the complexities of addiction and the reality that recovery is not always a straight path. By being open about my struggles and successes, I hope to inspire others facing similar challenges to seek help and know they are not alone. Moving forward, I intend to support mental health initiatives in several ways. First, I will actively engage in conversations about the impact of alcohol abuse on mental health, using my story to highlight the importance of early intervention and support systems. Whether through community outreach, veteran support groups, or informal discussions, I aim to create a space where others feel comfortable sharing their experiences and seeking help. Second, I will advocate for healthier coping mechanisms and resources. For myself, maintaining a balanced lifestyle, including good nutrition and a focus on physical health, has been instrumental in managing my relationship with alcohol. Sharing these practices with others can provide actionable steps for those struggling with similar challenges. Lastly, I strive to emphasize the connection between personal responsibility and self-awareness in overcoming mental health challenges. My story is a testament to the fact that while external support such as the interventions I experienced in the Army, can be invaluable, lasting change comes from within. It is the combination of external guidance and internal determination that drives success. In conclusion, my journey with alcohol abuse and recovery reflects both the difficulties and rewards of addressing a mental health challenge. By sharing my experiences and fostering open dialogue, I hope to support others and contribute to a broader awareness of mental health. Together, we can build a more understanding and compassionate world where no one feels isolated in their struggles.
      Charles B. Brazelton Memorial Scholarship
      I began my journey with a dream of becoming an electrical engineer. As a child, I was fascinated by the inner workings of electronics, marveling at how circuits and wires could bring life to machines. This passion drove my decision to attend Stony Brook University, where I eagerly embarked on a path to make that dream a reality. However, as I delved deeper into the coursework, I encountered a challenge I hadn’t anticipated: math was no longer my strong suit. The rigorous calculations and abstract concepts began to overwhelm me, forcing me to confront the reality that my dream might not align with my skills. Reluctantly, I switched to an undecided major, leaving my future direction unclear. This uncertainty marked the beginning of a period of exploration. Without a clear plan, I found myself jumping from one job to another, searching for a sense of purpose and stability. Each role taught me something new, but none seemed to provide the fulfillment I was looking for. Eventually, I decided to make a significant change. In 2015, I joined the United States Army, seeking structure, discipline, and an opportunity to grow. What began as a temporary solution to my lack of direction turned into a transformative journey. In the Army, I trained as an Air Defense Battle Management Systems Operator, a role that demanded precision, quick thinking, and teamwork. To my surprise, I excelled in this field, finding satisfaction in the challenges and responsibilities it brought. Over time, the military became more than just a job; it became a career. The sense of camaraderie and purpose I experienced reminded me of my early passion for engineering, but this time it was grounded in real-world application and personal growth. Despite my success in the Army, a lingering question remained: What do I truly want to do? Even now, I can’t say I have a definitive answer. What I do know is that I have the resilience and determination to achieve anything I set my mind to. This realization has been a driving force in my journey, motivating me to keep pushing forward even when the path isn’t clear. After a decade of military service, I decided it was time to revisit my education. My son, who is nearing junior high school graduation, became a source of inspiration. I want to show him the value of perseverance and lifelong learning by completing my degree. Returning to school after ten years is no small feat, but it is a challenge I am eager to tackle. This time, my goal isn’t just about career advancement; it’s about proving to myself that I can finish what I started. While I may not have a specific destination in mind, I’ve learned to embrace the journey. Each step, from my early aspirations at Stony Brook to my evolving career in the Army, has taught me valuable lessons about adaptability, resilience, and self-discovery. I’ve come to understand that life’s twists and turns aren’t setbacks but opportunities to grow and redefine success. As I work toward completing my degree, I remain open to the possibilities ahead. Whether I pursue a path related to my military experience, explore a completely new field, or continue to evolve as a lifelong learner, I am confident in my ability to navigate whatever comes my way. More importantly, I hope my journey inspires my son and others to believe that it is never too late to chase your goals.
      Anthony Yarde Student Profile | Bold.org