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Bria Alexander

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Bio

My name is Bria, and I’m 18 years old. My biggest life goal is to become a pediatrician. I’ve always been drawn to helping others, especially children, and I want to build a career where I can make families feel supported, informed, and cared for. Medicine has always interested me, but the idea of working with kids and being part of their growth and healing is what motivates me the most. I’m passionate about service, learning, and creating positive change in my community. Whether it’s through school, family responsibilities, or volunteer work, I’ve learned how to stay focused, patient, and committed. I care deeply about people, and I’m always looking for ways to make someone’s day easier or better. That passion for helping others is what pushes me toward the medical field. I believe I’m a great candidate because I’m hardworking, dependable, and driven by purpose. I don’t give up easily, and I’m willing to put in the time and effort to reach my goals. I’ve learned how to balance responsibilities, stay organized, and stay motivated even when things get challenging. I bring compassion, determination, and a genuine desire to make a difference — qualities that I know will help me succeed in the medical field and beyond.

Education

Charles J Colgan Sr High School

High School
2022 - 2026

Miscellaneous

  • Desired degree level:

    Master's degree program

  • Majors of interest:

    • Registered Nursing, Nursing Administration, Nursing Research and Clinical Nursing
  • Not planning to go to medical school
  • Career

    • Dream career field:

      Nursing

    • Dream career goals:

      Patricia Lindsey Jackson Foundation - Eva Mae Jackson Scholarship of Education
      Faith has always been the foundation of my life, guiding the way I think, the choices I make, and the goals I set for myself. It has shaped my character, my resilience, and my belief that I am meant to serve others with compassion and purpose. Growing up, I learned early that faith isn’t just something you practice on Sundays — it’s something you carry with you in the way you treat people, the way you respond to challenges, and the way you move through the world. My faith has taught me to stay grounded, to trust that God has a plan for me, and to keep pushing forward even when the path feels uncertain. In school, faith helped me stay focused and motivated. There were times when balancing responsibilities, expectations, and personal challenges felt overwhelming. But my faith reminded me that I wasn’t walking alone. It taught me patience when I felt frustrated, strength when I felt discouraged, and confidence when I doubted myself. Whenever I questioned whether I was capable enough or strong enough, I leaned on prayer and the belief that God equips us for the paths He places in front of us. That mindset helped me grow academically and emotionally, and it shaped the goals I have for my future. Faith also played a major role in my decision to pursue nursing. I’ve always felt called to care for others, especially those who are vulnerable or afraid. Nursing is a profession built on service, compassion, and empathy — values that align with everything my faith has taught me. I want to be a nurse who not only treats patients medically but also brings comfort, understanding, and kindness into their lives. I believe God gives each of us gifts, and one of mine is the ability to connect with people, especially children. That’s why I hope to enter pediatric nursing. I want to be a source of calm and reassurance for young patients and their families, and I want my work to reflect the love and patience I’ve learned through my faith. Beyond faith, I’ve also been pushed toward higher education by the people who believe in me. My parents have always encouraged me to aim high and stay focused. They taught me the value of education, hard work, and perseverance. Their support — along with the sacrifices they’ve made — motivates me to keep striving for more. I also think about my younger sibling, who looks up to me. I want to set an example that shows them what’s possible when you stay committed and trust in your purpose. My community has also played a huge role in shaping my goals. Through church events, service projects, and volunteer opportunities, I’ve seen how powerful it is when people come together to support one another. Those experiences taught me that education isn’t just for personal success — it’s a tool to uplift others. I want to use my education to serve my community through healthcare, mentorship, and advocacy. Whether it’s educating families about health, supporting children during difficult moments, or giving back through community programs, I want my career to reflect the same spirit of service that has been poured into me. Faith has given me direction, strength, and purpose. Education is giving me the tools to turn that purpose into action. And the people who believe in me are giving me the motivation to keep going. Together, they shape the future I’m working toward — one where I can serve others with compassion, lead with integrity, and make a meaningful difference in the world. Instagram: bria.kennadiee
      Forever90 Scholarship
      A life of service, to me, is not defined by titles or recognition — it’s defined by the quiet, consistent ways you show up for others. I try to embody a life of service through the way I treat people, the responsibilities I take on, and the intention behind my actions. Whether I’m helping my family, supporting younger children, participating in community events, or serving through my church and my mom's sorority initiatives, I’ve learned that service is about being present, compassionate, and willing to give even when no one is watching. Growing up, I was taught that service is a reflection of your character. My parents always emphasized helping others, staying humble, and using your gifts to uplift the people around you. Those values shaped the way I move through the world. When I volunteer — whether it’s assisting at community events, participating in clean‑ups, serving meals, or helping organize programs — I’m reminded that small acts of kindness can have a big impact. Something as simple as greeting someone with warmth, offering a helping hand, or making someone feel seen can shift their entire day. Those moments taught me that service doesn’t have to be grand to be meaningful. My education has strengthened this mindset by showing me how important it is to advocate for others and create spaces where people feel supported. Through school, I learned how to communicate, how to lead, and how to step up when something needs to be done. I also learned how to balance responsibility with compassion — skills that I know will guide me as I continue serving my community. As I pursue my education in nursing, I see it as an extension of the service‑driven life I already try to live. Nursing is a profession built on compassion, patience, and a willingness to care for people during their most vulnerable moments. I want to use my education to bring comfort, clarity, and dignity to every patient I meet. I want to be someone who listens, who advocates, and who treats people with the same kindness I’ve learned through my community and church involvement. In the future, I hope to serve not only inside hospital walls but also throughout my community. I want to participate in health education programs, support families who may feel overwhelmed, and mentor younger students who dream of entering healthcare. I want to use my knowledge to empower others — especially those who may not always have access to the resources or support they need. Ultimately, living a life of service means choosing compassion every day. It means using your gifts to make someone else’s load a little lighter. My education will give me the tools to do that on a larger scale, but the heart behind it comes from the values I’ve carried with me all along. I hope to continue serving with purpose, humility, and love — both now and throughout my future career.
      Dream BIG, Rise HIGHER Scholarship
      Education has shaped my goals and sense of direction in ways I didn’t fully understand until I looked back at how far I’ve come. For me, education has never been just about grades or checking off requirements. It has been a space where I learned who I am, what I’m capable of, and how to advocate for myself even when it felt uncomfortable. It has pushed me, humbled me, and taught me how to grow through challenges instead of shrinking from them. More than anything, education has given me a sense of purpose — a clear understanding that I want to use what I learn not only to build a better future for myself, but to uplift the people around me. One of the biggest lessons education taught me is that growth often starts with struggle. I didn’t always feel confident in school. There were times when I doubted myself, times when I felt overwhelmed, and times when I didn’t know how to ask for help. I used to think that struggling meant I wasn’t smart enough or capable enough. But over the years, I learned that struggling is part of the process — and that asking for support is a strength, not a weakness. A turning point for me was learning how to advocate for my own needs. I used to stay quiet even when I didn’t understand something, afraid of looking like I wasn’t keeping up. But eventually, I realized that staying silent only made things harder. Speaking up — whether it was asking a teacher for clarification, requesting more examples, or admitting when I felt lost — helped me understand my learning style and build confidence. That shift changed everything. It taught me that I have a voice worth using and that I deserve to be supported in my education just like anyone else. Another challenge I’ve overcome is balancing school with responsibilities at home. I’ve often had to manage my own workload while helping care for my younger sibling and supporting my family however I could. It wasn’t always easy, and there were days when I felt stretched thin. But those experiences taught me discipline, patience, and resilience. They taught me how to manage my time, how to stay focused even when life gets chaotic, and how to keep going even when I’m tired. Those skills have shaped the way I approach everything — school, work, and my future goals. Education has also shaped my sense of direction by showing me the kind of impact I want to make. Through service projects, community involvement, and leadership roles, I learned how powerful it is to give back. Whether I was volunteering at events, helping organize community programs, or simply supporting people who needed a little extra care, I realized that I feel most fulfilled when I’m helping others. Those experiences helped me understand that I want a career centered on compassion, connection, and service. That’s one of the reasons I’m pursuing nursing. Education opened my eyes to the fact that I want to be someone who brings comfort and clarity into people’s lives, especially during difficult moments. I want to use my knowledge to help people understand their health, navigate challenges, and feel supported. Nursing allows me to combine everything I’ve learned — academically, emotionally, and personally — into a career where I can make a real difference. Looking toward the future, I hope to use my education to create a better life for myself and for others. For myself, education represents independence, stability, and the chance to build a career I’m passionate about. It represents the opportunity to break barriers, reach goals that once felt out of reach, and become the version of myself I’ve always wanted to be. For others, I hope to use my education to be a source of support, guidance, and inspiration. I want to show younger students — especially those who doubt themselves or feel unseen — that they are capable of more than they realize. I want to be someone who listens, who advocates, and who helps people feel empowered to speak up for their needs. I want to give back to my community through service, mentorship, and compassionate care. Education has shaped me into someone who believes in growth, resilience, and purpose. It has taught me that challenges don’t define you — how you respond to them does. It has given me direction, clarity, and a vision for the future I want to build. And as I continue my journey, I plan to use everything I’ve learned to create a future filled with service, compassion, and positive change.
      Dashanna K. McNeil Memorial Scholarship
      As a graduating high school student, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about the kind of person I want to become and the kind of impact I want to make. Nursing is the career that feels most aligned with who I am at my core. I’ve always been someone who naturally steps into a caregiving role, whether it’s helping younger kids in my family, supporting friends when they’re overwhelmed, or being the person people come to when they need someone patient enough to listen. Over time, I realized that these weren’t just habits — they were signs pointing me toward a profession built on compassion, service, and human connection. What draws me to nursing is the balance between skill and heart. Nurses are the ones who stay by a patient’s side, who explain things when everything feels confusing, who bring calm into stressful moments, and who advocate when someone feels unheard. I’ve seen how powerful that presence can be. Even in my own life, the people who made the biggest difference during difficult times weren’t always the ones with the most authority — they were the ones who took the time to listen, reassure, and treat me with patience. That kind of impact stays with you, and it’s the kind of impact I want to make for others. I’m especially passionate about becoming a pediatric nurse. I’ve always had a natural connection with children — their honesty, their resilience, and the way they look for comfort in the people around them. Kids don’t hide their emotions, and when they’re scared or hurting, they need someone who can meet them with patience, gentleness, and understanding. I want to be that person. I want to help children feel safe in moments that might be frightening and help families feel supported and informed. Pediatric nursing allows me to combine my nurturing personality with my desire to make a difference in the lives of young patients. What I hope to get out of my nursing career goes beyond clinical skills. I want to grow into someone who can advocate for patients who can’t always advocate for themselves. I want to learn how to communicate with children in ways that make them feel seen, how to guide parents through stressful situations, and how to bring comfort even when the circumstances are challenging. I want to build trust, create calm, and bring dignity into every interaction. The impact I hope to make in pediatrics is rooted in compassion. I want to create an environment where children feel valued, where families feel heard, and where kindness is just as important as medical care. I want to be the kind of nurse who makes hospital experiences less frightening, who brings warmth into clinical spaces, and who helps children heal not just physically, but emotionally. Becoming a nurse isn’t just a career choice for me — it’s a calling. It’s the path that allows me to use my strengths, honor my values, and make a meaningful difference in the lives of others, especially the youngest and most vulnerable. Pediatric nursing is where my heart is, and I’m committed to making a positive impact in every child and family I care for.
      Beverly J. Patterson Scholarship
      My passion for nursing comes from a deep desire to care for others and make people feel safe, supported, and understood during some of the most vulnerable moments of their lives. I’ve always been someone who naturally steps into a caregiving role, whether it’s comforting younger children in my family, helping friends through stressful situations, or simply being the person people come to when they need someone patient enough to listen. Over time, I realized that these qualities weren’t just part of my personality — they were pointing me toward a career built on compassion, service, and human connection. Nursing is the field where all of those strengths come together. What inspires me most about nursing is the balance between skill and heart. Nurses are the ones who stay by a patient’s side, who explain things when everything feels confusing, who advocate when someone feels unheard, and who bring calm into moments of fear. I’ve seen how powerful that presence can be, and I want to be that kind of support for others. I want a career where I can make a real difference every single day, not just through medical knowledge but through empathy, patience, and genuine care. I’m especially passionate about becoming a pediatric nurse. I’ve always had a natural connection with children — their honesty, their resilience, and the way they look for comfort in the people around them. Kids don’t hide their emotions; when they’re scared, they show it, and when they trust you, they show that too. Being able to ease a child’s fear, make them smile during a difficult moment, or help a family feel more at peace is the kind of impact that stays with you. Pediatric nursing allows me to combine my nurturing personality with my desire to help families feel supported and informed. In my career, I hope to gain not only clinical skills but also a deeper understanding of how to advocate for patients who can’t always advocate for themselves. I want to learn how to communicate with children in ways that make them feel safe, how to guide parents through stressful situations, and how to bring comfort even when the circumstances are challenging. I want to grow into a nurse who is trusted, respected, and remembered for the way I made people feel. The impact I hope to make in pediatrics goes beyond treating illness. I want to create an environment where children feel seen and valued, where families feel heard, and where compassion is just as important as medical care. I want to be the kind of nurse who makes hospital experiences less frightening, who brings warmth into clinical spaces, and who helps children heal not just physically, but emotionally. Ultimately, nursing is more than a career to me — it’s a calling. It’s the path that allows me to use my strengths, honor my values, and make a meaningful difference in the lives of others, especially the youngest and most vulnerable. Pediatric nursing is where my heart is, and I’m committed to making a positive impact in every child and family I care for.
      Peter and Nan Liubenov Student Scholarship
      I see myself as a positive force in society because I lead with compassion, responsibility, and a genuine desire to make life better for the people around me. Even now, I try to show up in ways that create comfort, support, and connection. Whether it’s helping my family, supporting classmates, or participating in community service, I’ve learned that being a positive force doesn’t always require a big platform — sometimes it’s about the small, consistent choices you make every day. I try to be someone who listens, who notices when others are struggling, and who steps in without being asked. Those qualities shape how I move through the world now, and they’re the same qualities I plan to carry into my future. My involvement in service has shown me how powerful it is to give back. Through volunteer work, sorority initiatives, and community events, I’ve seen how much people appreciate being treated with kindness and respect. Serving meals, helping organize events, or even just welcoming people at the door has taught me that positivity spreads. When you make someone feel seen, they often pass that feeling on to someone else. Those experiences inspired me to think about the kind of impact I want to have long‑term — not just in my career, but in the way I show up as a person. I want to be someone who brings calm in stressful moments, who advocates for others, and who uses my strengths to uplift my community. Current social norms also shape how I think about being a positive force. We live in a time where people are often overwhelmed, disconnected, or afraid to ask for help. There’s pressure to appear strong, independent, and unbothered, even when life feels heavy. Because of that, compassion has become even more important. I’ve learned that being a positive force sometimes means going against the norm — slowing down when the world is rushing, choosing empathy when others choose judgment, or offering support when people expect you to mind your business. Social norms often tell us to focus on ourselves, but I believe real strength comes from caring about others and creating spaces where people feel safe and valued. Looking toward the future, I hope to continue being a positive force by pursuing a career where I can help people directly and consistently. I want to be someone who brings comfort, clarity, and dignity into people’s lives, especially during difficult moments. I also want to continue giving back through community service, mentorship, and advocacy. My goal is to use my education, my voice, and my compassion to make a meaningful difference — not just for myself, but for the people who come after me. I believe that being a positive force isn’t about perfection; it’s about intention. It’s about choosing kindness, choosing responsibility, and choosing to show up even when it’s not easy. That’s the kind of person I am now, and the kind of person I hope to continue becoming.
      Wieland Nurse Appreciation Scholarship
      My decision to pursue a career in nursing comes from a combination of personal experiences, natural strengths, and the kind of impact I want to make in the world. For as long as I can remember, I’ve been the person people come to when they need comfort, reassurance, or someone who will actually listen. I’ve always had a calm presence, especially in stressful situations, and I’ve learned how powerful it can be to make someone feel safe and understood. Over time, I realized that these qualities weren’t just personality traits — they were signs pointing me toward a career centered on compassion, service, and human connection. Nursing stood out to me because it blends science with empathy in a way no other profession does. Nurses are the ones who stay by a patient’s side, who explain what’s happening when everything feels overwhelming, who advocate when a patient’s voice feels small, and who bring comfort during moments of fear or uncertainty. I’ve seen firsthand how much nurses matter. Whether it was caring for a family member or witnessing how nurses support people during vulnerable moments, I noticed that they are often the heart of healthcare. They are the ones who make patients feel human, not just treated. My inspiration also comes from the values I was raised with. My parents always emphasized the importance of helping others and using your gifts to make a positive difference. Watching them work hard and support our family taught me what dedication looks like, and it made me want a career where I could show up for people in meaningful ways. Nursing gives me the opportunity to do that every single day — to combine knowledge with compassion, skill with empathy, and care with purpose. As a nurse, I hope to contribute to my community by being someone who brings comfort, clarity, and dignity to every patient I meet. I want to serve people who often feel overlooked or unheard in healthcare settings. I want to advocate for patients who may not know how to speak up for themselves and help families feel informed and supported during difficult times. My goal is to be the kind of nurse who not only treats illness but also strengthens trust, hope, and healing. I also hope to give back through education and outreach — whether that means participating in community health programs, mentoring younger students interested in nursing, or helping people better understand their own health. I want to use my career to uplift others, not just inside a hospital, but throughout the community I come from. Ultimately, nursing aligns with who I am and who I want to become. It allows me to turn compassion into action and make a real difference in people’s lives. That is the kind of impact I want to have on the world. I found out about this scholarship online.
      Sunshine Legall Scholarship
      My academic and professional goals are rooted in my desire to grow, serve, and make a meaningful impact on the people around me. I’ve always been someone who takes my responsibilities seriously, whether it’s in school, at home, or in my community. Academically, I want to challenge myself, stay focused, and build a strong foundation for my future career in healthcare. Professionally, I hope to become someone who not only succeeds in my field but also uses my knowledge and compassion to uplift others. I want a career where I can show up for people during their most vulnerable moments and make them feel seen, supported, and understood. Giving back to my community has played a huge role in shaping these goals. Through my involvement in service projects — especially with my mom's sorority’s initiatives — I’ve learned how powerful small acts of care can be. Whether it was participating in environmental clean‑ups, serving food at community events, or helping organize programs through the social justice committee, each experience taught me something about responsibility, empathy, and leadership. I realized that service isn’t just about completing a task; it’s about showing up with intention and recognizing the humanity in the people you’re helping. One moment that stands out to me was volunteering at an MLK Day event where I served as an usher and helped distribute meals. It wasn’t a complicated job, but it required patience, communication, and a genuine willingness to make people feel welcomed. I remember noticing how relieved people looked when someone greeted them with kindness or helped them find what they needed without judgment. That day taught me that making a difference doesn’t always require a big platform — sometimes it’s as simple as treating people with dignity. These experiences inspired me to think about the kind of impact I want to have in the world. They made me realize that I want to be someone who brings comfort, clarity, and compassion into spaces where people often feel overwhelmed or overlooked. That’s why my goals are centered around service‑based work. I want to continue giving back, not just through organized events, but through the way I carry myself every day — by listening, advocating, and being present for others. As I move forward, I hope to contribute to my community by being a leader who leads with empathy. I want to use my education to help people understand their health, navigate challenges, and feel empowered in their own lives. I also hope to inspire younger students, especially those who may feel unsure of themselves, to speak up for their needs and believe in their potential. Ultimately, my academic and professional goals are tied to one purpose: making a positive difference. The service I’ve done so far has shown me the kind of impact I’m capable of, and it motivates me to keep growing so I can continue giving back in even bigger ways.
      Community Health Ambassador Scholarship for Nursing Students
      My desire to pursue a degree in nursing comes from a combination of who I am, what I’ve experienced, and the kind of impact I want to make in the world. I’ve always been someone who naturally steps into a caregiving role, whether it’s supporting my family, comforting friends, or being the person others come to when they need someone patient enough to listen. Over time, I realized that these qualities weren’t just personality traits — they were signs pointing me toward a career built on compassion, service, and human connection. Nursing stood out to me because it blends science with empathy in a way no other field does. Nurses are the ones who stay by a patient’s side, who explain what’s happening when everything feels confusing, who notice the small changes others might overlook, and who bring comfort during moments of fear or uncertainty. I’ve seen how powerful that presence can be. Even in my own life, the people who made the biggest difference during stressful or overwhelming times were the ones who listened, reassured, and treated me with patience. I want to be that kind of person for others — someone who brings calm, clarity, and care when people need it most. Pursuing nursing also feels like a way to honor the values I was raised with. My parents always emphasized the importance of helping others and using your strengths to make a positive impact. Nursing gives me the opportunity to do that every day. It allows me to combine my interest in health with my passion for supporting people through vulnerable moments. It’s a career where I can grow, learn, and serve at the same time. As a nurse, I hope to contribute to my community by being someone who shows up with both skill and heart. I want to provide care that makes people feel seen, respected, and understood — especially those who often feel overlooked in healthcare settings. I want to advocate for patients who may not know how to speak up for themselves, and I want to help families feel informed and supported during difficult times. My goal is to be the kind of nurse who not only treats illness but also strengthens trust, dignity, and hope. I also hope to give back by educating and empowering others. Whether it’s teaching patients about their health, mentoring younger students interested in nursing, or participating in community health initiatives, I want to use my knowledge to uplift the people around me. Healthcare is not just about treating problems — it’s about preventing them, understanding them, and helping communities grow stronger. Ultimately, I want to pursue nursing because it aligns with who I am and who I want to become. It allows me to turn compassion into action, to transform care into connection, and to make a meaningful difference in the lives of others. Through nursing, I hope to serve my community with empathy, dedication, and a genuine commitment to healing.
      Losinger Nursing Scholarship
      My inspiration for pursuing a career in nursing comes from a combination of personal experiences, family influence, and the way I naturally show up for others. Growing up, I was often the person people came to when they needed comfort, reassurance, or someone who would actually listen. I didn’t realize it at the time, but those moments were shaping the kind of caregiver I wanted to become. I’ve always had a calm presence, especially when others are stressed or overwhelmed, and I’ve learned how powerful it is to make someone feel safe and understood. My parents also played a role in inspiring me. They always emphasized the importance of service, compassion, and using your gifts to help others. Watching them work hard and support our family taught me what dedication looks like, and it made me want a career where I could make a meaningful impact every day. Nursing stood out to me because it blends science, empathy, and human connection in a way no other field does. I’ve also seen firsthand how much nurses matter. Whether it was caring for a family member or witnessing how nurses support patients during vulnerable moments, I noticed that nurses are often the ones who stay by a patient’s side the longest. They explain, comfort, advocate, and guide — sometimes all at once. That combination of skill and heart is something I deeply admire. Choosing nursing feels like choosing a path that aligns with who I already am. I want to be the person who brings comfort in uncertainty, who listens without judgment, and who shows up with both knowledge and compassion. Nursing gives me the opportunity to do that every day, and that’s what inspires me most. To me, the phrase “human touch” represents the emotional, personal, and relational side of care — the part that goes beyond medical tasks and reaches a patient’s heart. It’s the warmth in someone’s voice, the patience in their tone, the way they sit down instead of standing over you, or the simple act of acknowledging someone’s fear instead of brushing past it. Human touch is the reminder that behind every chart, diagnosis, or procedure is a real person with feelings, worries, and hopes. In patient care, human touch can completely transform an experience. A patient may not remember every medication they received or every instruction they were given, but they will remember how they were treated. They will remember whether someone made them feel rushed or valued, ignored or understood. Human touch builds trust, and trust is essential in healthcare. When patients feel safe, they communicate more openly, follow instructions more confidently, and feel less alone in their healing process. Human touch also creates dignity. Illness can make people feel vulnerable, powerless, or disconnected from themselves. A nurse who takes the time to explain what’s happening, who listens without judgment, or who simply offers a reassuring presence can help restore a patient’s sense of control. Sometimes the most healing thing isn’t a treatment — it’s knowing someone genuinely cares. For me, human touch is also about presence. It’s choosing to slow down, even in a busy environment, and give someone your full attention. It’s understanding that compassion is not an extra step in healthcare; it’s a necessary one. Nurses often meet people on some of the hardest days of their lives. A gentle tone, a patient explanation, or a moment of empathy can make those days feel less frightening. As a future nurse, I want to bring that kind of human touch into every interaction. I want patients to feel seen, respected, and supported — not just treated. Human touch is what turns medical care into meaningful care, and that is the kind of nurse I hope to become.
      Philippe Forton Scholarship
      One of the most meaningful moments of compassion I’ve experienced didn’t happen during a crisis or a dramatic situation. It happened on a day when I was quietly struggling, trying to carry more than I wanted anyone to notice. I’ve always been the type of person who tries to handle everything on my own — schoolwork, responsibilities at home, expectations I put on myself — even when it becomes overwhelming. I didn’t like the idea of asking for help or admitting that I was having a hard time. But one afternoon, someone saw through the mask I thought I was wearing so well. I was sitting at my desk after class, pretending to organize my things even though I was really just trying to keep myself from breaking down. My teacher walked over and asked if I was okay. I gave the automatic answer: “I’m fine.” She didn’t walk away. Instead, she sat beside me and said, “You don’t have to pretend with me.” Those words hit me harder than I expected. They were gentle, but they opened a door I didn’t realize I needed. For the first time in a long time, I let myself be honest. I told her I felt overwhelmed, that I was trying my best but still felt like I was falling behind, and that I didn’t know how to ask for help without feeling embarrassed. She didn’t interrupt. She didn’t rush me. She didn’t make me feel dramatic or weak. She just listened — really listened — in a way that made me feel seen and safe. After I finished talking, she helped me break down what I needed. She showed me how to communicate with my teachers, how to ask for clarification, and how to use the supports available to me without feeling ashamed. She reminded me that needing help doesn’t make me less capable — it makes me human. Over the next few weeks, she checked in on me, not to hover, but to make sure I wasn’t slipping back into silence. That consistency meant more to me than she probably realized. What affected me most was how simple her compassion was. It wasn’t a grand gesture. It was a moment of paying attention. But it changed the way I saw myself and the way I understood compassion. I realized that kindness isn’t always about fixing someone’s problems — sometimes it’s about giving them space to breathe, to be honest, and to feel supported. That moment shaped me in a deep way. It taught me that I don’t have to carry everything alone and that speaking up for my needs is a form of strength. It also made me more aware of the people around me. I started checking in on friends more, offering help when I could, and paying attention to the small signs that someone might be struggling silently. As I move forward, I want to continue honoring my strengths by advocating for myself and showing others the same compassion that was shown to me. That experience taught me that compassion has the power to shift someone’s entire day,or even their entire mindset, and I hope to carry that lesson with me wherever I go.
      Woodbridge VA State Burner's MC College Scholarship
      Growing up, I always heard stories about the impact an HBCU can have on a person’s life. Both of my parents attended Mississippi Valley State University, and they’ve always talked about how transformative that experience was for them — not just academically, but culturally and personally. They found community, confidence, and lifelong friendships there. Because of that, they always encouraged me to consider an HBCU, not out of pressure, but because they wanted me to experience the same sense of belonging and pride that shaped them. As I got older, I realized how much their stories connected to my own experiences, especially as a Black student in a mostly white high school. Attending a school where the majority of students don’t look like me has taught me a lot about resilience, independence, and how to navigate spaces where I sometimes feel out of place. I’ve had moments where I felt like I had to shrink myself or adjust parts of who I am just to blend in. I’ve been in classrooms where I was one of the only Black students, and that came with a pressure to represent more than just myself. While I’ve learned how to succeed in that environment, it also made me realize how much I longed for a space where I didn’t have to think about those things — a space where I could just be myself without explanation. That’s why attending an HBCU feels so important to me. I want to be in an environment where Black excellence is normal, where culture is celebrated, and where I don’t feel like the “only one” in the room. I want to experience the same sense of community and empowerment my parents found at Mississippi Valley State. Choosing an HBCU is not just about following in their footsteps — it’s about continuing a legacy of education, pride, and opportunity that they started. It’s about stepping into a space built for students like me, where I can grow academically while also strengthening my identity. Hampton University represents everything I’m looking for. I know that at Hampton, I’ll be surrounded by professors who understand the unique challenges and strengths of Black students. I’ll be part of traditions that honor our history and push us toward excellence. I’ll be in classrooms full of people who share similar cultural experiences, which creates a level of comfort and confidence that non‑HBCUs simply can’t replicate. An HBCU doesn’t just prepare you for a career — it prepares you to move through the world with pride, self‑awareness, and a strong sense of who you are. I believe an HBCU will prepare me differently by giving me both academic rigor and cultural grounding. It will challenge me, support me, and surround me with a community that wants to see me succeed. Choosing Hampton is choosing a place where I can grow without feeling out of place, where I can be fully seen and fully supported. It’s choosing to continue a legacy that started with my parents and now continues with me.
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