"Adversity doesn't build character; it reveals it." This quote from James Lane Allen is something I have heard throughout my entire life. I have the blessing (and the curse) of having a father that coaches high school football. So, I have been around the game of football my entire life. My mom loves to tell the story of how when I was brought home from the hospital, my dad dropped us off and went to coach in a high school football scrimmage. Of course, she didn't mind. She knew football was important to him and, thus, important to her. Once I was old enough to pay attention on the sidelines, I was a manager. So, from the ages of six to twelve, I served the high school team as a ball boy, water boy, etc. I couldn't wait to play football when I got to the 7th grade. Why did I wait until 7th grade? My dad felt that it was smarter to focus on basketball and baseball until then. So, he wouldn't let me play until I was in junior high. Unfortunately, that meant my first year of football was junior high football (7th and 8th grade). Being in 7th grade and naturally on the smaller side, I was physically outmatched. I started at quarterback and free safety because our team did not have a lot of eighth graders. However, most of the teams we were playing were not in the same boat. Needless to say, the games didn't go very well. It was not quite the introduction to football that I had always imagined. We went 1-6 that first year (mercifully, the junior high season isn't that long). In 8th grade, with the help of experience and puberty, we were able to improve to 3-4. It was not great, but it was much improved. Since I was a talented basketball player, many people thought I would specialize in that and give football up, but that thought never crossed my mind. My dad likes to say that "a person only gets a short time to be an athlete. Play as many sports as you want and have fun with your friends." So, I heeded his words and kept playing. Fortunately, my freshmen year, our varsity had a great year and experienced a lot of success. The senior class was a great group of athletes and people. They created a culture of unselfishness and toughness that carried over to the field. This was not a coincidence. Our coaches are constantly speaking about the intangibles that go into winning. Not only do they go into winning in athletics, they go into winning in life as well. We, as players, bought into that message and did all the little things that go into creating a positive culture. That culture stayed all four years I played on the varsity. We never won the district championship, but we did qualify for the playoffs four times and won a total of 34 games during my high school career. Personally, I became an all-conference player in both my junior and senior seasons. More importantly, I learned life lessons that would never be able to experience otherwise. I have had to handle success, failure, and adversity. All three are different and need a different skillset. In addition, I've had to work towards a common goal with a diverse group of individuals. This is something that will translate into my adult workplace and family life. These are skills I would not have learned without football and I am grateful for lessons it has taught me.