"With the medicine that you are taking, I'm afraid that your baby will come our abnormal. We suggest aborting your child, to avoid any abnormalities she will face." This was the direct line my mother heard when she was carrying me in the year 1998. Being the first child that she was carrying, she did not know what to do. She had me in a new country, away from her home, Ghana, away from family, where she carried fear and loneliness where she went. She was an African immigrant in land that was ready to give citizen too but was told her child was not going to make it. After twenty six years, I can happily say, I did not come out abnormal, and my mother made the best choice of not listening to her doctor.
Growing up in a Christian home, I was taught that all life is sacred, even in stressful situations. My mother had a choice to listen to doctors, who were more skilled and educated than herself, but she trusted in her God, prayed every single day while she carried me, and the results proved so. Since knowing that I was at risked of being aborted, I realized how much life would of been so different for my parents.
It's appalling how there are individuals who do not see the life starting the minute a baby is born. According to CDC, over 600,000 babies are aborted in the United States. It pains me to think that once upon a time, I could have been part of that statistic. I worked as a certified nurse assistant and I can't help but think of the times I caught my elderly patient from falling and saving her from a deadly situation. I can't help but think of meaning the love of my life who survived cancer. I can't help but think of the family the Lord has blessed me too, even when times were hard. Those 600,000 lives that are lost because of one irrational and selfish choice to remove a blessing on this earth.
As a believer of Jesus Christ, it is my sole mission to spread the good news to every single individual that I meant. I have promoted his mission at work, groceries, church, strangers at a bench, and anywhere that I was called to be in. I wear it with honor and with gladness hoping to free this way of thinking that our life is our own. It is not. Every life is sacred because we have an amazing God that has created us in His image. In Psalms 139:14 NIV, His Word says, "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." I know this because He is the truth, the way, and life. If he says that we are his work. Scratch that, if he calls us his children, it's because he knows that we are wonderfully made by Him. I advocate this where I go, especially in social media like my Instagram. I don't care if I am hated or disliked, this is the truth. It is the truth that set my mother and I free and I pray that this is the truth that set all of us free.