My name is Bek Koven, and I am writing to express my strong interest in applying for this scholarship. I am currently in the final year of my undergraduate degree at Florida International University, where I have maintained a GPA of 3.96. I am on track to receive my Bachelor of Arts in Psychology in the summer of 2025, and I am eager to continue my education and career in this field.
From a young age, I was always "different" in the way I presented my gender. I refused to wear dresses or anything "girly", I wanted to be called male names, and even male pronouns. When I entered school though I had to conform more than I ever had, I had to push down the feelings of wanting to be a boy. However, I was always strict in only wearing "boys" clothes. Most of my family supported me, my parents would buy me the clothes I wanted and even allowed me to get short haircuts. They called me a "super major tomboy" and that's what we went with for all of my childhood. It wasn't until 2020 during the pandemic lockdowns that I actually came to terms with being transgender, thanks to social media and my supportive partner. I had finally found an identity that felt right, Transmasculine Non-Binary. Being in FL, it was scary to come to terms with this and the fact that I would have to come out to so many people, especially throughout my academic journey. It was easy at the beginning, simply putting my pronouns in my Zoom name. Eventually, I would have in-person classes though, and would have to face telling classmates and professors my pronouns. It was hard at first, but now being so confident in my identity and myself (thanks to medically transitioning) it comes more naturally.
My long-term goal is to work in counseling psychology, specifically within an LGBTQIA+ community center. As a queer individual, I have personally experienced the need for supportive mental health resources that cater to our community's unique experiences and challenges. My passion for this field is deeply rooted in my belief that everyone deserves access to compassionate and understanding mental health care, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity.
Growing up, I faced numerous challenges related to my own neurodivergence. Navigating life with ADHD and ASD was often difficult, especially in an educational system and society that frequently misunderstands and stigmatizes these conditions. There were times when I doubted my ability to pursue my dreams due to these challenges. However, I have worked tirelessly to overcome these doubts and the ableist attitudes that pervade many areas of life. I firmly believe that disabled individuals, including those with neurodivergent conditions, can make significant contributions to the field of therapy. Our experiences can enhance our empathy and understanding of clients' struggles, allowing us to provide more nuanced and effective support.
In addition to my academic pursuits, I have been actively involved in various volunteer and advocacy work, focusing on mental health awareness and support for marginalized communities. I have worked with local LGBTQIA+ organizations, helping to create safe spaces for individuals to express themselves and seek help. This work has been incredibly fulfilling and has further solidified my desire to specialize in counseling psychology for queer communities. I am particularly interested in exploring how intersectional identities, such as race, gender, and disability, impact mental health and access to care.