Domestic violence should be a rarity, nonetheless it’s pretty popular in urban areas; everywhere really. “On average, close to 20 individuals per minute are victims of physical violence by an intimate partner in the United States”, according to Project Sanctuary. This is not only vigorously influencing, but it is seriously earth-shattering. To think of bonding through trust, intimacy and happiness: could be the exact bondage that makes one reconsider their ability to discern. Collecting heartfelt memories to cherish is one thing, consequently inflicting traumatic malice through inflicting physical wounds and screams are nothing new to similarity. How can you go about inspecting something that would bring unconditional nourishment and security rather temporary comfort and unawareness of relationship red flags? Personally, I could answer with trying to find the good in everyone. I remember when a narcissist pretended to be a philanthropist and humanitarian because they seen these traits in me, and need an experience. Failing to see and putting on a hopeless romantic cloak: the dagger when right in my heart but back first. At that time I was so hook on temporary comfort and mirages. I took the hard way to learn a valuable and impactful lesson: When life give you abusers: run and tell the world! I’ve personally been hospitalized while being pregnant from physical domestic violence and even to points of depression and desperation of needing to feel love from the abuser because of shallow apologies and hardwired destructive habits built off of falsified feelings. Some one who truly loves you unconditionally would never physically, mentally or emotionally abuse you. Even if accidentally, once expressed that one would have actions of change and externally valid it through change. I plan to become superb success in my health care to not only put trust back into justice but build a known safe haven for entities who suffer from physical neglect. To be able to become a practitioner of health is perfect to read through the hidden signs and execute influencing plans of eliminating domestic violence. The abused become the abuser, if one doesn’t heal thy self. Through coordination of vital display of consideration and investing time and capital into telling my story, or if granted another's’, to fund a refuge and rejuvenation for the abused. The abuser are in desperate need of discipline and treatment as well… once again: the abused becomes the abuser. I am using my higher education to establish an infrastructure for African Americans, especially black wombmen, to give better knowledge of the truth of how common the tragedies are. We deserved to be heard, validated and protected. I am an advocate for the double minorities and have a covenant to bring justice one level at a time. Having the opportunity to share one of the most traumatic experiences while also empowering it by embracing the pain that is now strength helps bring awareness to individuals who are ready for positive actions and activities.

Friendship means family. Once you are my friend I consider you family. This mean you can count on me to be there during your highs and lows: to support the friend even when he/she might try to give up. Friendship is like a well filled with healing water, one sip of the water and I can be refreshed from its rejuvenating properties. Friendship means nourishment and nurturing; even in disagreements. . . We will find a solution. When it comes to friendship I believe in treating everyone the same even if we are in a new environment or new crowd! Sticking to your virtues and morals because being traditional is now lost in this new sea of “friendships”. If I am the captain of the ship, I am going to make sure I do my best to lead; just as much as I expect my friends to lead me if I am stirring the wrong way. Friendship is like having your own personal guide beside you, making new memories & sharing in on consideration & views. Never judging my friends because trust is the stronghold of the relationship. When we crash, we come back together with more love and fidelity to built a BIGGER, BRIGHTER ship! That’s what friends do! They stick it out and appreciate each other’s differences and enjoy the similarities. Friendship means more than the social media post, it’s an oasis of relevant relativity that help shape you into a better you.