My educational goal is to complete my four years at my university to earn a bachelor's degree. Through this, I believe that I can not only help my family, but I believe I can create a cycle in my family of graduating with my degree. By graduating with my degree I can also create generational wealth.
In the fall of 2017, I faced one of the biggest and toughest obstacles in my life, and this obstacle that shook me to the core was that my mother developed breast cancer. When I heard that my mother had cancer, I began to have a fear of my mother's death. I was just a young fourteen-year-old timid freshman who was starting my first year in high school, and when I came to High School it was very hard for me. Starting in High School, I didn’t have that many friends because I was coming from a different Middle school than other students. As a student, I was struggling because I wasn't the best student, and I would always have bad thoughts about my Mom.
The Fall semester was one of the hardest times in my life. I never told any friends or teachers about what my Mom and my family were going through. I tried to stay positive and always put my best foot forward in school. Being the kid with the complicated emotions of his mom being sick didn’t exactly fit into my peers' lives— it was heavy for me, how could I ask my friends to shoulder that burden with me? But there was always something off, and my AVID teacher, Mrs.Echols, had seen what I had been trying to hide from others— I was discouraged and unhappy about how my current situation was affecting my life. I was reluctant to tell my teacher because I didn’t want anyone to treat me differently. I then agreed to share the news with my class. After, she told them I came into the classroom with fear and worry in my heart, but I was met with hugs and applause from my classmates. From that day forward I was focused to bring my grades and make my mom proud.
At the end of the school year, I brought my grades up to a 3.6 GPA, was awarded Student of the Year for my AVID class, and joined a variety of school activities. In the year 2018, my mother won her year-long battle with cancer and was healed of Breast Cancer. My life was changed forever, because of my situation. I evolved into a person who became driven with a purpose. Through my mom’s journey, I learned: in life, you have to persevere through everything, that time is not promised to anyone, and that I have to live my life with ambition, integrity, and focus. My mom’s journey also taught me that you should never give up, no matter the odds, no matter the circumstance, and continue to persevere and fight.