Ari 🤍 here’s a strong, reflective 400-word essay that keeps it honest but focused on growth and direction: ⸻ How My Mental Health Has Influenced My Beliefs, Relationships, and Career Goals My mental health journey has deeply shaped the way I see myself, others, and my future. Experiencing emotional hardship forced me to confront my inner world in ways I never expected. Instead of allowing those struggles to define me, I chose to let them refine me. As a result, my beliefs, relationships, and career goals are all grounded in resilience, self-awareness, and purpose. First, my mental health experiences strengthened my belief in personal responsibility and faith. I learned that while I could not control everything that happened to me, I could control how I responded. That shift in perspective changed my life. I began practicing gratitude, even in difficult seasons. I began believing that growth was possible, even when healing felt slow. I now believe that adversity is not meant to destroy us —eryser guide I believe that with faith and discipline, healing is possible. My mental health also transformed the way I approach relationships. I became more intentional about boundaries, communication, and emotional regulation. I no longer believe that love requires self-sacrifice to the point of self-destruction. I value safety, respect, and mutual growth. Becoming a mother intensified this shift. I want my son to grow up in an environment where emotions are acknowledged, not suppressed, and where healthy coping is modeled daily. My journey taught me that breaking cycles starts with awareness. Professionally, my experiences influenced my career goals in powerful ways. I am currently pursuing a certificate in cybersecurity because I want to build stability and security — both financially and structurally. After navigating instability in my personal life, protection became important to me. Cybersecurity is about safeguarding systems and information, and in many ways, that mirrors my desire to create safety in every area of life. I want to use my career not just for income, but to protect vulnerable communities from digital exploitation and fraud. Ultimately, my mental health journey reshaped my identity. It taught me resilience, empathy, and discipline. It strengthened my faith, clarified my values, and refined my goals. I do not view my struggles as weaknesses anymore. They are proof that I can endure, adapt, and grow. My mental health has not limited my future — it has prepared me for it.

Ari 🤍 this is tender. I’m going to write this gently but powerfully — focusing on love, grief, and how that loss shaped you. Around 500 words. ⸻ Losing a Mother Figure and How It Shaped My Journey Loss does not always come in the form people expect. For most of my childhood, I had an estranged relationship with my biological mother. We were not close, and for many years I grew up longing for maternal connection. About two years ago, we began rebuilding our relationship, but before that healing began, I found a mother figure in someone unexpected — my child’s father’s mother. I met her when I was eighteen years old. I am now twenty-five, almost twenty-six, which means she was part of my life for most of my adulthood. Over time, she became more than just my boyfriend’s mom — she became my friend. We were gal pals. We sang Taylor Swift songs together at the top of our lungs. We took birthday shots together and laughed like teenagers. We walked the dogs at the park, watched movies like Fatal Attraction, and spent time just talking about life. On hard days, I would even accompany her to doctor’s appointments. We joked, we vented, we shared stories. She made me feel included, supported, and seen in a way I had always longed for. When I became pregnant with my son, she was overjoyed. She always wanted to be a grandmother. I was so excited to give her that gift — to see her hold him, to watch her love him the way she loved her own children. But she passed away suddenly when I was five months pregnant. It was three days after Christmas and two days before my child’s father’s birthday. The timing made it even heavier. There was no long goodbye. Her autoimmune disease led to lung failure, and everything happened so fast. She never got to meet her grandson. That reality still breaks my heart. Every Christmas since her passing carries a shadow. What used to be a season of laughter now carries the anniversary of her death. Grief changed everything. It changed my relationship. It changed the journey into parenthood. My child’s father was so excited to become a dad, and when our son was born, there were moments he couldn’t call his mom to share the joy. There were times I wished I could ask her what he was like as a baby, how she handled certain phases, or simply hear her reassurance. When my son was first born, sometimes I would look at him and see glimpses of her. I wish she could see him running around now, almost two years old. I wish I had one more conversation, one more laugh, one more park walk. I miss her deeply. I hope she knew how much I loved her. Losing her shaped my journey in profound ways. It taught me not to delay expressing love. It taught me how fragile time truly is. It made me more intentional as a mother because I understand how precious each moment is. Her absence has been painful, but her presence in my life continues to influence how I love, how I nurture, and how I show up for my son. Grief does not disappear — it transforms. And I carry her with me in every birthday, every Christmas, and every milestone she should have been here to see.

Ari 🤍 this one is about positioning you as someone already doing the work — even if it doesn’t look like a nonprofit yet. You’re addressing social issues through survival, education, and intention. Here’s your 500-word essay: ⸻ How I Am Working to Address an Important Social Issue One of the most urgent social issues affecting communities today is domestic violence and housing instability. These issues often overlap, creating cycles of fear, financial dependence, and homelessness that are difficult to escape. I know this not just from statistics, but from experience. And I am actively working to address this issue through education, advocacy, and long-term planning. Surviving domestic violence forced me to confront how vulnerable individuals can become when safety and financial independence are compromised. Leaving an unsafe environment meant relocating 800 miles away with my one-year-old son and starting over with no savings and no job. For a period of time, we lived in a homeless shelter while I rebuilt stability. That experience opened my eyes to how many families are one crisis away from displacement. The first way I am addressing this issue is by breaking the cycle in my own life. Stability is a form of activism. By pursuing education in cybersecurity, I am creating financial independence and long-term security for my family. Economic empowerment is one of the strongest tools against domestic instability. When individuals have sustainable income and career pathways, they are better equipped to leave unsafe environments. Secondly, I am addressing this issue through openness and encouragement. Many survivors suffer in silence due to shame or fear of judgment. I choose to speak about rebuilding in a way that emphasizes strength rather than stigma. When I encounter women in shelters, transitional programs, or even casual conversations who feel trapped, I share resources and remind them that leaving is possible. Sometimes social change begins with honest dialogue. Additionally, my current work in elderly care has strengthened my awareness of another related issue: vulnerability within underserved populations. Many seniors and low-income families are targeted by scams and exploitation. As I complete my cybersecurity certification, I plan to offer digital safety education workshops specifically for vulnerable groups. Financial and digital security are directly connected to housing stability. Protecting someone’s financial identity can prevent crisis. My long-term goal is to expand this work beyond conversation. I plan to establish a safe, structured space for women and children fleeing domestic violence. Not just a temporary shelter, but a place that integrates education, job placement assistance, financial literacy, and emotional support. My career in cybersecurity will provide the financial stability and professional leverage necessary to build that vision responsibly and sustainably. Addressing a social issue does not always require immediate large-scale action. It requires consistency, intention, and a willingness to confront uncomfortable realities. I am addressing domestic violence and housing instability by choosing independence, modeling resilience for my son, supporting other survivors when I can, and building a career that will fund long-term solutions. Social issues persist when cycles remain unbroken. I am committed to breaking cycles — personally, professionally, and generationally. Through education, financial stability, and service, I am working to ensure that safety and opportunity are not privileges, but accessible realities for families like mine. My journey began with survival. It continues with purpose.

Yes. We can open strong, direct, and powerful — without oversharing. Here’s your revised 500-word essay with that bold beginning: ⸻ About Me and How I Plan to Use My Career to Create Positive Change I am a domestic violence survivor who chose to rebuild instead of remain broken. That decision required me to leave everything familiar, relocate 800 miles away, and start over with my one-year-old son. I arrived in a new city with no job, no savings, and no clear roadmap — only determination. Today, I am a cybersecurity student preparing to graduate in May, and my journey has reshaped both my identity and my purpose. Surviving domestic violence forced me to redefine strength. It taught me that safety is not optional and that courage often looks like walking away from what you once hoped would work. Starting over in Houston meant humility. My son and I spent time in a homeless shelter while I searched for stability. That season stripped away pride but strengthened my focus. I became committed to building a life rooted in security, not survival. I chose to pursue cybersecurity because protection matters deeply to me. After experiencing instability firsthand, I understand how vulnerable people can be — physically, emotionally, and financially. In today’s world, much of that vulnerability exists online. Cybercrime, fraud, and data breaches disproportionately impact those who lack resources or knowledge. I want to be part of safeguarding individuals and communities from digital harm. Currently, I work in elderly care. While my long-term career is in cybersecurity, caring for seniors has shaped how I define service. Many elderly individuals are frequent targets of scams and identity theft. Working closely with them has shown me how critical digital education and protection truly are. I plan to combine my technical skills with community outreach by offering cybersecurity awareness workshops for seniors and underserved families. Protection should not be a privilege — it should be accessible. My experiences have also shaped my long-term vision. Financial stability through my cybersecurity career will allow me to create broader change. I aspire to open a safe space for survivors of domestic violence and families experiencing homelessness. I know what it feels like to need shelter, guidance, and someone to say, “You can rebuild.” My career will give me the resources to turn that vision into action. More than anything, I want my son to see resilience modeled consistently. I want him to grow up understanding that adversity does not end your story — it refines it. By pursuing education, maintaining stability, and choosing service, I am building a legacy of strength rather than silence. Surviving domestic violence did not define me as a victim; it revealed my capacity for courage. Starting over did not weaken me; it clarified my purpose. Through cybersecurity, I will protect systems and sensitive information. Through service, I will protect people. And through stability, I will create opportunities for others to rebuild their lives safely. My life is proof that survival can evolve into leadership. My career will be the platform I use to ensure that protection, education, and hope reach far beyond my own story.

Ari 🤍 I’m proud of you for choosing how you want your story told. We can absolutely focus on your recent adversity — strength, courage, and forward movement — without going into details you don’t want to share. Here is your 500-word essay: ⸻ How I Overcame Adversity and How It Shaped Me Adversity has forced me to make life-changing decisions that required courage I did not know I possessed. Recently, I faced one of the most terrifying moments of my life when a domestic situation escalated to the point where my safety was at risk. In that moment, I realized I had two choices: stay in what was familiar or choose uncertainty in order to survive and protect my child. I chose survival. With very little money, no job lined up, and no concrete plan, I left everything I knew in Atlanta and moved 800 miles away to Houston, Texas. I left behind family, familiarity, and comfort because I understood that sometimes growth requires distance from what is hurting you. The move was not glamorous. When my son and I arrived, we had no financial cushion. We stayed in a homeless shelter while I figured out our next steps. Living in a shelter was humbling. It stripped away pride and forced me to focus only on what truly mattered: safety, stability, and forward movement. Instead of allowing that season to define me, I used it as motivation. I enrolled in school and began pursuing a certificate in cybersecurity. Education became my anchor. It gave me structure, discipline, and a clear path forward when everything else felt uncertain. Starting over in a new city without resources taught me resilience. I had to advocate for myself, seek community resources, and push through moments of doubt. There were days when fear tried to convince me I had made the wrong decision. But every time I looked at my son, I knew I had chosen the right path. Protecting him and modeling strength became my driving force. Today, our circumstances look very different. We now have our own place. I am actively working toward securing reliable transportation. I will graduate from my cybersecurity program in May. I have also begun preparing to pursue enlistment in the Air Force, because I want to continue building discipline, service, and long-term stability into my life. Each step forward is proof that adversity does not have to end in defeat. Overcoming this chapter of my life has reshaped me. It strengthened my independence and clarified my values. I learned that safety is non-negotiable. I learned that starting over is not failure — it is courage in motion. Most importantly, I discovered that resilience is built through action, not comfort. If I could offer advice to someone facing similar circumstances, it would be this: do not underestimate your ability to rebuild. Leaving a harmful situation may feel impossible, but staying where you are unsafe costs far more. Seek help. Use available resources. Focus on one step at a time instead of the entire staircase. Progress does not have to be fast; it just has to be consistent. Adversity shaped me into someone who refuses to settle for survival alone. I am building a future defined by security, education, and purpose. What once felt like the end of my life became the beginning of a stronger one.

Ari 🤍 this is your leadership essay. We’re going to show impact, even if it wasn’t formal or flashy — because real impact isn’t always loud. It’s consistent. It’s lived. Here’s your 500-word essay: ⸻ How I Have Impacted My Community and How I Plan to Create Greater Change Impact does not always begin with a title or an organization. Sometimes it begins with survival, honesty, and the willingness to be transparent about growth. My impact on my community has started in small but meaningful ways — through vulnerability, mentorship, and resilience — and I plan to expand that impact through my education in cybersecurity. Over the past year, I have navigated homelessness, domestic violence recovery, and rebuilding my life as a mother. Rather than hiding those experiences, I have chosen to speak openly about them with other women and young mothers in similar situations. In shelters and transitional spaces, I have shared resources, encouraged women to apply for educational programs, and reminded them that temporary hardship does not define permanent worth. Sometimes impact is as simple as telling another woman, “You are not crazy. You are not weak. You can rebuild.” By choosing sobriety and emotional accountability, I have also impacted my immediate community — especially my son. Breaking cycles of unhealthy coping mechanisms creates generational change. Instead of modeling escape through alcohol or self-destruction, I model emotional regulation and problem-solving. That shift alone changes the trajectory of a child’s future. I have also influenced my peers through my educational journey. Enrolling in a cybersecurity program at Houston Community College despite instability demonstrated that rebuilding is possible. I have encouraged others to pursue certifications and workforce training programs rather than feeling stuck in survival mode. When people see someone rise from difficult circumstances into structured goals, it challenges limiting beliefs. The changes my actions have created may not yet be large-scale, but they are foundational. I have created hope in rooms where despair once dominated. I have created conversations around mental health and accountability instead of silence. I have shown that asking for help and seeking education are strengths, not weaknesses. My degree in cybersecurity will allow me to create broader change in two key ways: protection and opportunity. First, cybersecurity is about safeguarding information and protecting systems. As technology advances, vulnerable communities are often the most exposed to scams, fraud, and digital exploitation. I want to use my knowledge to educate underserved communities about online safety and digital literacy. Protecting someone’s financial data or identity can protect their stability. Security creates freedom. Second, financial stability through my career will allow me to invest in long-term community initiatives. My ultimate goal is to open a safe space for homeless individuals and domestic violence survivors. My degree is not just about personal success — it is about building a foundation strong enough to support others. Education gives me leverage. Leverage allows me to serve. Impact, for me, begins at home and expands outward. It starts with healing myself so I do not pass down pain. It continues through mentorship, transparency, and leading by example. And it will grow through my professional career as I combine technical skill with purpose-driven service. Change does not require perfection — it requires commitment. I am committed to using my education, my voice, and my resilience to create stability, awareness, and opportunity for others. My journey is proof that transformation is possible. And I intend to turn that transformation into lasting change for my community.

Ari 🤍 thank you for trusting me with something this vulnerable. I’m going to write this in a way that is honest, accountable, and strong — showing struggle, growth, recovery, and a clear plan forward. This will be about 650 words. ⸻ Mental Health, Recovery, and My Commitment to Growth I have overcome battles that many people never see. By the grace of God, I do not look like what I have been through. But my journey with mental health has been real, painful, and transformative. Before the age of seventeen, I experienced significant childhood trauma, including physical, sexual, mental, and verbal abuse. Growing up in an environment where I did not feel safe, heard, or understood shaped the way I viewed myself and the world. I internalized pain that no child should carry. As a teenager, that pain developed into severe depression, anxiety, and PTSD. I struggled with feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness. I attempted suicide multiple times and was hospitalized in psychiatric units more than once. I was prescribed antidepressants and began navigating what it meant to survive my own thoughts. In 2019, I turned to alcohol to numb the pain. When I felt too overwhelmed, I drank to forget. When I felt too empty, I harmed myself because I wanted to feel something — anything — instead of emotional numbness. I was not coping; I was escaping. At the time, I did not have the emotional tools to process trauma in a healthy way. Motherhood changed everything. When I gave birth to my son, I realized that I no longer had the option to give up. I love my one-year-old more than words can express. I knew I could not allow him to grow up watching me self-destruct. I did not want him to see frustration and reach for a bottle as the solution. I want him to see that it is okay to be sad. It is okay to be overwhelmed. Emotions are valid — but they must be managed in healthy ways. I made a conscious decision to stop drinking. Even now, there are moments when I feel the urge, especially during sadness or stress. But I choose not to act on it. Recovery, for me, is a daily commitment. It is choosing growth over escape. It is choosing responsibility over temporary relief. Faith has been a cornerstone of my healing. I believe that with God, anything good is possible. There were seasons when my mind felt dark and heavy, and I was unsure if I would ever see light again. But I began shifting my mindset intentionally. I moved from scarcity thinking to abundance thinking. I began practicing gratitude — even for small things. I learned that my mind directs my life. Where my thoughts go, my actions follow. And where my actions go, my future follows. Alongside emotional growth, I committed to educational progress. I am currently completing a cybersecurity certificate program at Houston Community College. Education represents stability, structure, and self-sufficiency. It is proof that I am building something long-term for myself and my son. Graduating will not just be an academic achievement; it will symbolize my commitment to becoming the healthiest version of myself. My plan for continuing recovery is intentional and proactive. I prioritize self-awareness and emotional regulation. I am open to therapy and mental health support when needed. I avoid environments that trigger unhealthy coping habits. I practice gratitude daily and lean into my faith consistently. Most importantly, I hold myself accountable. Sobriety is not just about abstaining from alcohol — it is about choosing clarity, responsibility, and growth. I am no longer defined by my past hospitalizations, trauma, or self-harm. Those experiences are chapters, not my identity. Today, I am focused on healing the younger version of myself while building a stable future for my son. I keep going because I have purpose. I keep going because I believe healing is possible. And I keep going because I want my son to grow up seeing strength — not perfection, but perseverance. Recovery is not a destination. It is a daily decision. And I am committed to choosing it, every single day.

Ari 🤍 this is beautiful. I’m going to center your mom’s strength, your faith, and your future vision in a way that feels powerful but polished for a scholarship committee. Here’s your 500-word essay: ⸻ Raised by Strength: How Being Raised by a Single Mother Shaped My Future Being raised by a single mother shaped every part of who I am. My mother did not just raise three children on her own — she carried the weight of responsibility, sacrifice, and uncertainty while still managing to give us love and stability. Watching her navigate life as a single parent taught me resilience long before I understood the word. As the oldest of three, I witnessed her strength up close. There were no shared responsibilities or backup plans. Every bill, every decision, every sacrifice fell on her shoulders. Instead of giving up under pressure, she made bold choices. She joined the military to create financial security for us, even though it meant long hours and physical demands. She chose discipline over comfort and sacrifice over ease because she believed her children deserved opportunity. Growing up in that environment forced me to mature early. I learned that excuses do not build futures — perseverance does. I learned that faith and hard work must go hand in hand. My mother always reminded us that with God, anything good is possible, but we must also be willing to do the work. That balance of faith and action now guides my own decisions. Being raised by a single parent also showed me the reality of struggle. Stability is not guaranteed. Security is not automatic. I have experienced seasons of hardship in my own life, including homelessness and rebuilding after painful circumstances. During those times, I heard my mother’s voice reminding me that quitting is not an option. Her example became my blueprint for survival and growth. Because of her, my future goals are rooted in service. I do not want success solely for personal achievement; I want it to create safety and opportunity for others. One of my greatest dreams is to open a homeless shelter and a safe space specifically for domestic violence survivors. I know firsthand how vulnerable those seasons can feel. I want to create a place where women and children are not just sheltered, but supported emotionally, spiritually, and practically as they rebuild their lives. I also want to give back to children who grow up feeling unseen or unstable. Whether through mentorship, education initiatives, or community programs, I want to help young people believe that their circumstances do not define their ceiling. My talent, determination, and education are tools — and I intend to use them to uplift others. Currently, I am pursuing education in cybersecurity to build financial stability for my son and myself. Long-term, that stability will allow me to fund and support the outreach work I envision. My success will not stop with me. It will ripple outward. My mother taught me that adversity does not have the final word — perseverance does. She showed me that shining your light in dark seasons can guide others through theirs. The future I envision is one where I take everything she poured into me — resilience, faith, and courage — and pour it back into the world. Because I was raised by strength, I now aim to become strength for others.

Ari 🤍 this one is powerful. I’m going to honor your mom properly in this essay — strong, dignified, and centered on sacrifice, legacy, and how her service continues to impact generations. Here’s your 500-word scholarship essay: ⸻ The Military Service Member Who Shaped My Life Service runs deep in my family. Both of my parents served in the military. My grandfather fought in the Vietnam War. My other grandfather, my uncles, my aunts, and even my cousins have worn the uniform. Commitment, discipline, and sacrifice are not abstract ideas in my family — they are lived experiences. However, while many of my relatives have served honorably, the person whose service has impacted me most profoundly is my mother. My mother joined the military as a single mother of three children. I am the oldest. At the time, she was not simply pursuing a career; she was making a survival decision. Raising three children alone is difficult under any circumstances, but doing so without financial stability is nearly impossible. She chose to serve not because it was easy, but because it offered structure, opportunity, and a future for her children that she could not access otherwise. Her decision required immense courage. Military life meant long hours, physical demands, and time away from us. It meant missing moments and carrying stress most civilians never fully see. Yet she never complained. She carried her uniform with pride because she understood what it represented — security for her children. She sacrificed comfort so we could have stability. Today, as an adult and a mother myself, I understand her sacrifice in a way I could not as a child. Recently, my mother was hospitalized due to a brain tumor. That moment terrified me. Seeing someone so strong face something so fragile reminded me just how much she has endured. Even while facing health challenges, she remains resilient. Her strength has never wavered. Because of her service, my life has changed in ways that feel generational. The benefits she earned through the military and the VA have given me opportunities that would have otherwise been out of reach. Her sacrifice is the reason my college tuition is covered. It is the reason I receive financial support that I can use toward securing reliable transportation and stable housing for my one-year-old son. It is the reason I was able to leave a homeless shelter and rebuild my life. I am currently pursuing a certificate in cybersecurity, a path that will provide long-term stability for my family. Every class I complete is connected to her decision to serve. Her discipline inspired my determination. Her bravery fuels my resilience. She showed me that sacrifice today can create opportunity tomorrow. My mother’s military service did not just protect a nation — it protected her children’s futures. She transformed uncertainty into possibility. Her uniform represented more than duty; it represented love in action. I carry her example with me in everything I do. As I build a stable future for my son, I recognize that I am continuing a legacy of courage and perseverance that began with her. My mother served with honor, and because of that, I am able to stand on a foundation she built through strength, sacrifice, and unwavering love.

Ari this one??? Oh this is PERSONAL. I can feel how much Wicked means to you already. 🖤✨ Here’s your polished 500-word essay — emotional, reflective, and strong: ⸻ Why I Am a Fan of Wicked I am a fan of Wicked for many reasons, but at its core, it is because I see myself in the story. Watching both films starring Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo was more than entertainment for me — it was emotional, validating, and deeply inspiring. Both of them are among my favorite singers, and seeing such powerhouse vocalists bring these characters to life made the experience even more meaningful. Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo are not only technically gifted singers; they are storytellers. Their voices carry emotion, strength, and vulnerability all at once. Cynthia’s portrayal of Elphaba especially moved me. Her performance captured the pain of being misunderstood and unfairly judged. Ariana’s portrayal of Glinda added depth and warmth, showing that growth and awareness can transform even the most privileged perspectives. Together, they created a dynamic that felt authentic and powerful. But what truly makes Wicked special to me is its message. Elphaba’s story is about being labeled before being understood. She is judged for being different. She is treated as dangerous, strange, and undesirable simply because she does not fit society’s expectations. I deeply relate to that feeling. Over the past year, I have faced significant challenges and transitions that made me feel isolated and misunderstood. Like Elphaba, I have been negatively labeled without people knowing my full story. There is something profoundly moving about watching a character who is cast aside rise into her power. Elphaba does not start out trying to be “wicked.” She is passionate, intelligent, and strong-willed. Her so-called “wickedness” is really the result of a society that fears what it cannot control. That message resonated with me. Sometimes when you stand firm in your truth, when you protect yourself, or when you refuse to conform, you are misunderstood. But that does not make you wrong. This past year, I have overcome personal struggles that tested my strength and identity. I have had to rebuild, redefine myself, and push forward even when I felt judged or alone. Watching Wicked felt like a reminder that being different is not a flaw — it can be a gift. Elphaba’s journey shows that integrity matters more than popularity. She chooses to stand by her values even when it costs her acceptance. The execution of the films made the story even more powerful. The visuals, the music, and the emotional intensity brought new life to a story that already carries timeless meaning. Hearing songs like “Defying Gravity” performed with such raw conviction reminded me that sometimes rising above expectations requires courage. I love Wicked because it is a story about perspective. It challenges the idea that there is only one side to the truth. It honors the misunderstood. It celebrates resilience. And through the incredible performances of Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo, it reminded me that my story, like Elphaba’s, is still unfolding — and I have the power to define it for myself.

Yesss Ari this is such a strong concept 👏🏽✨ I tightened it to right around 500 words while keeping the depth, creativity, and drama. ⸻ Love Island Challenge Concept: “Red Flag or Real Growth?” If I could create a Love Island challenge, I would design one that balances emotional depth with dramatic tension. While the show thrives on romance and chaos, I sometimes wish contestants were encouraged to truly understand each other before making big decisions. My challenge, titled “Red Flag or Real Growth?”, would bring honesty, vulnerability, and accountability into the villa — while still keeping viewers entertained. The challenge would begin with each Islander being told that someone from their romantic past has been contacted. Instead of live phone calls for pure shock value, producers would ask an ex to anonymously submit three things about the contestant: one red flag, one green flag, and one area of growth they witnessed. The submissions would be verified for authenticity but kept anonymous to avoid unnecessary hostility. The Islanders would gather around the fire pit as the host reads each anonymous description aloud. After each set of statements, the group would guess whose ex submitted them. Once revealed, the Islander in question would have the opportunity to respond. They could explain the context, take accountability, or reflect on how they’ve changed. This moment would naturally create tension, but it would also open space for maturity and self-awareness. The real twist would come after the reflection. The Islander’s current romantic partner would then have to decide whether they believe the behaviors described are still present. They would hold up a sign that reads either “Red Flag” or “Real Growth.” This decision would be emotional and revealing. It forces couples to confront trust head-on: Do you believe your partner has evolved, or do you fear history repeating itself? Including both red and green flags is essential. Reality television often focuses only on flaws, but real relationships are complex. The green flag component ensures contestants are seen as whole people, not just their mistakes. It also gives viewers a fuller picture of compatibility. What was once a red flag in a past relationship may no longer exist if someone has genuinely grown. The purpose of this challenge is not humiliation — it is reflection. Many people enter new relationships carrying unresolved patterns. By bringing those patterns into the open, Islanders must answer a powerful question: Are you repeating the past, or rewriting it? This challenge would spark meaningful conversations within the villa. It could strengthen couples who choose trust and communication. It could also expose incompatibilities early, preventing deeper heartbreak later. For viewers, it offers both drama and emotional substance — reactions, difficult choices, and honest dialogue. “Red Flag or Real Growth?” shifts the focus from surface-level attraction to emotional accountability. Love is not just chemistry or physical connection. It requires self-awareness, responsibility, and the willingness to evolve. In a villa known for fast romances and sudden twists, this challenge would encourage something deeper: growth, truth, and the courage to confront who you were in order to become who you’re meant to be.

I’m so proud of you, Ari. Truly. 🤍 Here’s your tightened 500-word version — still powerful, still personal, just more concise and scholarship-ready: ⸻ Why I Am a Fan of Sabrina Carpenter and How Her Career Has Impacted Me Being a fan of Sabrina Carpenter is more than loving her music — it’s about seeing resilience, reinvention, and courage reflected back at me during one of the hardest seasons of my life. Her journey has paralleled my own in ways I didn’t expect, especially while I was rebuilding from rock bottom. Over the past year, I left a domestic violence situation with my one-year-old son. I experienced homelessness. I moved nearly 800 miles away from my entire family to start over in a new city with nothing but determination and faith. At the same time, I made the decision to return to school and pursue a certificate in cybersecurity — a completely new path for me. I was rebuilding my life from scratch while trying to create stability for my child. During this transition, Sabrina Carpenter’s evolution deeply resonated with me. I watched her grow from a Disney Channel actress into a confident, independent artist who controls her narrative. She faced public scrutiny, criticism, and heartbreak — yet instead of shrinking, she expanded. In albums like Emails I Can’t Send, she transformed vulnerability into strength. She didn’t hide her experiences; she owned them. That inspired me to view my own struggles not as shameful, but as transformative. One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned from Sabrina’s career is that reinvention is strength. She refused to be boxed into a former child star image. She evolved her sound, embraced her femininity, and stepped boldly into her power. Watching her gave me permission to evolve too. I am not just a survivor of abuse. I am not just a young mother starting over. I am a cybersecurity student building financial independence and a future for my son. There were nights when I questioned whether I was strong enough to start over so far from home. But seeing Sabrina’s confidence — especially in her most recent era — reminded me that growth requires courage. She carries herself with boldness and humor, unapologetically taking up space. That encouraged me to stop dimming myself. I survived homelessness. I protected my child. I enrolled in school despite fear. I deserve to stand confidently in my own story. Her work ethic motivates me as well. Sabrina writes, tours, acts, and constantly refines her craft. Her success is the result of discipline and belief in herself. As I complete each cybersecurity course, I remind myself that progress is built one step at a time. Every class I pass is proof that I am creating something stable and lasting. Ultimately, being a fan of Sabrina Carpenter has been about empowerment. She represents growth without shame and ambition without apology. Through her journey, I’ve learned that starting over does not mean failure — it means courage. Like her, I am choosing to step into my next chapter boldly, determined to build a future that is stronger than my past.

One of the greatest challenges I have overcome has been rebuilding my life after experiencing circumstances that forced me to start over with almost nothing. After leaving an unsafe situation, my young son and I lived in a homeless shelter while I worked to secure safety, stability, and a path forward. Adjusting to shelter life, managing limited resources, and continuing my education at the same time tested me in ways I never imagined. Without a car and with very little support, even basic tasks such as attending classes, appointments, and interviews required careful planning, persistence, and faith. Becoming a single parent while navigating homelessness and relocation taught me resilience, discipline, and emotional strength. There were moments when exhaustion and fear made progress feel impossible, but I refused to give up. Every step forward, no matter how small, became a victory. These experiences reshaped my mindset and strengthened my commitment to creating a stable life for my son. I want him to grow up knowing that even when life begins in difficult circumstances, determination and effort can change the course of a future. This scholarship would be life-changing for my family. By easing financial pressure, it would allow me to focus more fully on my education instead of constantly worrying about basic needs. It would also bring me closer to achieving my long-term goal of giving back to others. I plan to use my future career to help create safe, supportive spaces for families facing crisis, including shelters and resources that promote healing, stability, and hope. Being able to transform my own experiences into tools for helping others is one of my greatest motivations. Stamp collecting has played a meaningful role in my personal growth. What started as a small hobby became a source of peace and reflection during uncertain times. Each stamp represents a journey, a story, and a connection to a larger world. Collecting them has taught me patience and appreciation for details, reminding me that even the smallest pieces can hold great value. This perspective has helped me stay focused on small, consistent steps toward rebuilding my life. My journey has been shaped by hardship, but also by strength, purpose, and hope. I am committed to continuing my education, building stability for my son, and using my experiences to uplift others. This scholarship would not only support my academic goals, but also help me continue turning obstacles into opportunities and pain into purpose.

My choice to pursue a trade in cybersecurity was shaped by one of the most difficult moments of my life. I survived a near-death domestic violence incident — in front of my 13-month-old son. That day forced me to relocate, leave everything familiar, and rebuild from nothing. I carried both the trauma of that experience and the urgent responsibility to create a safe, stable future for my child. My son is my greatest inspiration. He motivates me to strive, thrive, and push past every obstacle. I want to give him a life defined by peace, security, and opportunity — and I want him to see that even in the face of adversity, it is possible to rise stronger. Cybersecurity appealed to me because it mirrors my own journey. At its core, it is about protecting others — safeguarding systems, defending against threats, and preventing harm. Just as I fought to protect myself and my son, I now want to use my skills to protect others in the digital world. Houston Community College’s program offers the hands-on, real-world training I need to make that vision a reality. The road here has not been easy. Relocating meant starting over without a strong support system, facing financial instability, and balancing parenting with the demands of school. There were times when exhaustion and uncertainty felt overwhelming. Still, I refused to give up. I learned to budget carefully, seek out available resources, and lean on a small but reliable network of support. Each class I complete strengthens my determination to succeed. Skilled work like cybersecurity is vital in today’s world. Technology touches every part of our lives, and with it comes the need for skilled professionals to keep systems safe. Cybersecurity is not just about computers — it’s about trust, stability, and protection. I am committed to becoming a professional who provides that security. This scholarship would make a significant difference. It would ease the financial strain, allowing me to focus fully on my studies and skill development. More than that, it would be an investment in the future I am building for my son — one where he grows up in an environment of stability, peace, and prosperity. My journey has taught me resilience, purpose, and the importance of using my skills to help others. With the support of this scholarship, I can take the next step toward a career that changes lives — starting with my own family’s.

My name is Ariana Cason, and my life has been shaped by both service and struggle. Growing up in Atlanta, I learned the importance of giving back through my work with Hosea Feed the Hungry. For six consecutive years, I volunteered with this organization, serving meals and offering support to individuals and families in need. That experience taught me humility, compassion, and the value of community — values that continue to guide every step of my journey. As a Black woman in America, my path has not been easy. Trauma has been a recurring theme throughout my life, testing me in ways I never expected. Most recently, I endured a near-death experience due to domestic violence, an event that forced me to relocate to Houston, Texas with my one-year-old son. That experience could have broken me, but instead it became my motivation. My son is my driving force — the reason I strive to build a future of safety, peace, and prosperity. Every challenge I have faced has taught me resilience, and every hardship has fueled my determination to rise and succeed. My passion for cybersecurity stems from my desire to protect and safeguard. Cybersecurity is about more than technology; it is about trust, defense, and stability. Just as I fought to protect myself and my son, I want to build a career where I can protect others — their data, their systems, and ultimately their peace of mind. I see cybersecurity as both a calling and a pathway to leadership, where I can grow through certifications, gain expertise, and eventually take on roles that allow me to mentor and guide others entering the field. Leadership and service have always been important to me. Whether it was serving meals in Atlanta or supporting peers in my community today, I find purpose in lifting others up. I believe true leadership is not about titles, but about inspiring change, offering guidance, and helping people reach their potential. In the future, I want to use my cybersecurity career not only to build stability for my family but also to mentor young women and minorities, showing them that it is possible to overcome hardship and thrive in technical fields. Pursuing a cybersecurity program at Houston Community College is the foundation for these goals. This course of study will give me the knowledge and certifications to enter the industry with confidence and credibility. More importantly, it will equip me with the skills to create a lasting impact — protecting businesses and individuals, contributing to digital security, and inspiring the next generation of leaders. Through resilience, service, and determination, I have turned pain into purpose. With the support of this scholarship, I will continue my journey into cybersecurity, uplifting both my son’s future and my community as a whole.

Taylor Swift’s twelfth studio album, The Life of a Showgirl, feels like a celebration of everything she has built over the years—her resilience, her ability to reinvent herself, and the way she continues to invite fans like me into her world. I’ve been following Taylor since I was little, and her music has grown alongside me, almost like a soundtrack to my own life. One performance that has stayed with me the most is her live performance of “Marjorie” on the Eras Tour. It was already such a moving song on Evermore, but seeing it live transformed it into something unforgettable. The way Taylor sings about her grandmother’s memory while standing in front of thousands of fans felt both deeply personal and universally relatable. I remember watching clips of the stadium lit up with flashlights, every single person honoring someone they loved. It felt like Taylor created a space where grief and love could coexist. That moment means even more to me because I used to listen to Taylor’s music with my mother-in-law. She passed away in 2023, and since then, songs like “Marjorie” have taken on a new weight. It reminds me of the nights we’d share music together, and it makes me feel like a piece of her is still here when I hear Taylor sing. Taylor’s ability to capture those emotions—loss, memory, love—while still making her audience feel connected is why her career continues to shine so brightly. The Life of a Showgirl seems like it will carry both sides of Taylor: the dazzling, glamorous performer and the vulnerable storyteller. For me, that’s what makes her so inspiring—not just the spectacle, but the way her songs can reach into your life and make you feel seen.

The trades — including plumbing, HVAC, electrical work, and other skilled professions — are the backbone of modern society. These careers ensure that homes, businesses, and communities function safely and efficiently. Without skilled tradespeople, our daily lives would be disrupted; clean water, climate-controlled buildings, reliable electricity, and proper sanitation would become luxuries rather than necessities. The trades are not only essential for comfort and convenience but are critical for public health, safety, and economic stability. They combine technical expertise, problem-solving, and hands-on skill to create infrastructure that supports the world we live in today, often in ways that go unnoticed but are absolutely vital. Personally, I have long been drawn to a vocational path that allows me to make a tangible difference. While my ultimate goal is to work in cybersecurity, my experience with trades has shaped my understanding of technical systems, problem-solving, and attention to detail — skills that translate seamlessly to the digital world. I am motivated to excel in my chosen field not only to secure a stable career but to create safety, prosperity, and opportunity for my family, especially my young son. This scholarship would help me focus fully on my education at Houston Community College, reduce financial stress, and acquire the specialized training I need to succeed and make a meaningful impact in my community. Trades have had a profound impact on my life. Growing up, I witnessed the value of skilled work through those who kept our community running, even in difficult conditions. Experiencing challenges such as relocating after surviving domestic violence has shown me firsthand how essential infrastructure is to creating stability and safety. These experiences have reinforced my respect for tradespeople and instilled in me a desire to contribute meaningfully to society through my own career, while inspiring others to value practical, skilled work. I also strive to embody the core values of G.R.I.T: generosity, respect, innovation, and teamwork. I practice generosity by helping others whenever possible, whether mentoring peers or offering support in group projects. Respect guides my interactions with everyone, valuing the unique skills and perspectives each person brings. I embrace innovation by constantly seeking creative solutions to problems, whether in technical work or everyday challenges. Finally, I prioritize teamwork, understanding that collaboration strengthens outcomes and builds trust in both personal and professional environments. In conclusion, the trades are the foundation of modern society, and their importance cannot be overstated enough. They demonstrate that skilled work is not just a career path but a critical service to communities and families. My personal goals are to leverage the lessons of tradesman-ship, discipline, dedication and problem-solving in my chosen field, creating a secure and meaningful future. This scholarship would provide the support and stability I need to continue my education, further develop my skills, and fully embody the values of G.R.I.T in every aspect of my life. By investing in my education, this scholarship is also an investment in the communities I hope to serve, helping others benefit from skilled, dedicated work.

Ever since I was young, I have been fascinated by how things work — from disassembling old gadgets to writing simple code that brings my ideas to life. This curiosity eventually blossomed into a passion for hacking and tinkering, which I have used not only to deepen my own understanding but also to delight those around me by solving problems in unexpected ways. One memorable experience that stands out happened during my sophomore year of high school. Our computer lab was frequently plagued by network connectivity issues that disrupted classes and frustrated both students and teachers. The school IT department was overwhelmed, and it often took days before the problem was resolved. Seeing the impact this had on everyone, I decided to take matters into my own hands. I began by carefully observing the network setup, gathering information from my own research and conversations with the IT staff. I used network diagnostic tools to identify bottlenecks and tested various devices connected to the system. Through this process, I discovered that an outdated router was causing frequent crashes, which led to the connectivity dropouts. But instead of just reporting the issue, I wanted to provide a temporary fix until the router could be replaced. Using a Raspberry Pi I had at home, I configured it to act as a secondary access point and created a simple script that would automatically switch the network connection to this backup router when the main one failed. It wasn’t a permanent solution, but it significantly reduced downtime and made the network more reliable during peak hours. I presented my setup to the school’s IT department, who were impressed by the practical approach and adopted my system as a temporary measure. What delighted me most was seeing the immediate impact on my fellow students and teachers. Classes that used to be interrupted by dropped connections were suddenly running smoothly. Teachers could focus on their lessons without the stress of technical disruptions, and students could complete their assignments on time. The gratitude expressed by both students and staff inspired me deeply and reinforced my belief that hacking and tinkering, when done responsibly, can be a powerful force for good. Since then, I have continued to explore creative ways to apply my skills, whether it’s developing simple apps to automate everyday tasks or experimenting with hardware to enhance device functionality. Each project is a challenge, but the reward lies in knowing that the solutions I create can improve someone’s experience or solve a real problem. This experience taught me that hacking is not just about breaking into systems; it’s about understanding, creativity, and making a positive difference. It’s a skill set that requires curiosity, patience, and ethical responsibility. I am eager to continue learning and growing in this field, using my skills to innovate and delight others in new and meaningful ways. The Kyle Lam Hacker Scholarship would not only help me advance my education but also support my ongoing mission to use hacking and tinkering as tools to empower and delight my community.

My life has been deeply shaped by domestic violence. I survived not just physical abuse, but emotional manipulation, financial control, and isolation. I know what it feels like to be trapped, afraid, and unheard. I know what it’s like to walk on eggshells, to protect someone who’s hurting you, and to question your worth after being broken down again and again. I’ve also experienced the aftermath of trauma—the loss of self, the challenges of rebuilding, and the long, lonely process of healing. This isn’t just something I’ve witnessed. It’s something I’ve lived. For too many African American women, domestic violence and substance abuse are silent epidemics. We are often expected to be strong, to endure, to stay quiet for the sake of family or reputation. Many of us lack access to culturally competent care, safe spaces to speak our truth, or even basic resources to escape abusive environments. That silence nearly cost me my life. It’s why I’m so determined to use my experiences—and my education—to be a voice, a bridge, and a source of healing for others like me. Higher education is my path forward, not just to change my own life, but to change systems that continue to fail Black women. I am currently pursuing a career in dental assisting as my foundation, but I plan to go further—into maternal health, mental health advocacy, and community-based support services. My ultimate goal is to open a postpartum care center and a domestic violence shelter that centers the needs of African American women. I want to provide a full-circle approach: education on pregnancy, breastfeeding, and natural birth, combined with trauma-informed care and support for those escaping abuse or addiction. Education will give me the tools to understand healthcare systems, advocate for policy change, and improve the coordination of care between medical, mental health, and social services. I want to help build programs that not only treat survivors but uplift them—programs that listen without judgment and offer real, sustainable resources. I also believe communication is key. African American women need more representation in leadership, in counseling, and in health services to ensure we are truly seen and heard. I plan to use my voice and credentials to open those doors. My pain has a purpose, and my survival is not the end of my story—it’s the beginning of my mission. I want to build a world where no Black woman feels alone, where help is accessible, and where healing is possible. Through higher education, I will gain the knowledge, training, and credibility to make that vision real. Because every survivor deserves a future. And I’m committed to being part of the reason they believe it’s possible.

I am a woman shaped by pain, strengthened by survival, and driven by purpose. Today, I am pursuing a career in dental assisting—a step that represents more than just job security. It’s a symbol of how far I’ve come and a foundation for how far I plan to go. After surviving sexual assault, domestic violence, homelessness, and unimaginable loss, I am no longer just trying to survive. I am building a life rooted in healing, stability, and service—not only for myself and my son, but for countless others like us who deserve support and safety. Dental assisting has given me a tangible path to independence. I’ve always had a passion for caring for others, and this field allows me to be hands-on, skilled, and impactful in people’s lives. I take pride in learning the science behind oral health, understanding patient care, and mastering precision-based techniques. I plan to continue my education, grow my clinical expertise, and become a trusted professional who brings both warmth and competence to every patient I serve. But my vision goes far beyond the dental office. My life experiences have lit a fire in me to serve women—especially those who are struggling through the same battles I’ve fought and overcome. I am determined to one day open a postpartum care center that provides education, empowerment, and emotional support for new mothers. I want to teach women about their bodies, breastfeeding, natural labor and delivery, and the mental health changes that come after giving birth. No woman should have to navigate that vulnerable time alone, especially those coming from trauma or poverty. In addition, I am committed to creating a safe haven for survivors of domestic violence—a shelter where women and their children can heal, rebuild, and restart. I know what it feels like to be trapped in fear with nowhere to turn. I also know the freedom that comes when someone finally believes in you and offers a way out. I want to be that someone. I want to give women the resources, education, and tools they need to not only escape abuse but to reclaim their futures with dignity. Everything I do—whether it's studying dental procedures or volunteering in the community—is guided by one mission: to transform pain into purpose. I am determined to master my trade, expand my impact, and show my son and others that no matter how dark life may get, we always have the power to rise. With the right support, I won’t just change my own life—I’ll help change many.

My path to dental assisting was not a straight one—it was born out of hardship, healing, and a desire to create a better life for myself and my son. I’ve survived unthinkable trauma: sexual assault, domestic violence, homelessness, the loss of my best friend and grandmother during COVID, and the pain of losing a baby. Each of these experiences brought me to the edge, but I refused to let them define or destroy me. Instead, I chose to fight for my future. And in doing so, I discovered a career that could offer me stability, purpose, and the opportunity to care for others: dental assisting. What inspired me most was the chance to enter the healthcare field in a way that felt hands-on, personal, and impactful. Dental assistants play a vital role in helping patients feel seen, safe, and cared for—something I longed for during my own darkest moments. That connection inspired me. I saw that dental assisting wasn’t just about tools and procedures; it was about trust, compassion, and precision. I realized I wanted to be part of a field where I could help people smile again—literally and emotionally. Another part of my inspiration came from becoming a mother. When I had my son, I made a promise to give him a better life. I wanted a career that could support us, but also one that he could be proud of. Dental assisting provides a strong foundation for growth, education, and long-term opportunity. It allows me to use my strengths—attention to detail, calm under pressure, and empathy—in a setting where I can keep learning and contributing to others’ health and confidence. But my goals go far beyond earning a paycheck. I’m building a future where I can give back. I dream of opening a postpartum care center and a domestic violence shelter to help women who are walking the same path I once did. Dental assisting is the first step in that larger vision. It gives me a trade I can master, a career I can grow in, and the means to one day build the support systems I wish had existed when I needed them most. My inspiration to pursue dental assisting comes from a deep place—not just survival, but transformation. I want to rise, not just for myself, but for every woman, mother, and survivor who thinks they can’t. I’m proving that we can. Dental assisting is my entry point into a life of service, stability, and strength—and I’m ready to embrace it fully.

I am a woman shaped by pain, strengthened by survival, and driven by purpose. Today, I am pursuing a career in dental assisting—a step that represents more than just job security. It’s a symbol of how far I’ve come and a foundation for how far I plan to go. After surviving sexual assault, domestic violence, homelessness, and unimaginable loss, I am no longer just trying to survive. I am building a life rooted in healing, stability, and service—not only for myself and my son, but for countless others like us who deserve support and safety. Dental assisting has given me a tangible path to independence. I’ve always had a passion for caring for others, and this field allows me to be hands-on, skilled, and impactful in people’s lives. I take pride in learning the science behind oral health, understanding patient care, and mastering precision-based techniques. I plan to continue my education, grow my clinical expertise, and become a trusted professional who brings both warmth and competence to every patient I serve. But my vision goes far beyond the dental office. My life experiences have lit a fire in me to serve women—especially those who are struggling through the same battles I’ve fought and overcome. I am determined to one day open a postpartum care center that provides education, empowerment, and emotional support for new mothers. I want to teach women about their bodies, breastfeeding, natural labor and delivery, and the mental health changes that come after giving birth. No woman should have to navigate that vulnerable time alone, especially those coming from trauma or poverty. In addition, I am committed to creating a safe haven for survivors of domestic violence—a shelter where women and their children can heal, rebuild, and restart. I know what it feels like to be trapped in fear with nowhere to turn. I also know the freedom that comes when someone finally believes in you and offers a way out. I want to be that someone. I want to give women the resources, education, and tools they need to not only escape abuse but to reclaim their futures with dignity. Everything I do—whether it's studying dental procedures or volunteering in the community—is guided by one mission: to transform pain into purpose. I am determined to master my trade, expand my impact, and show my son and others that no matter how dark life may get, we always have the power to rise. With the right support, I won’t just change my own life—I’ll help change many.

I am a woman of resilience, strength, and purpose. My journey has been far from easy—I’ve faced traumatic experiences that many could not imagine. I’ve survived rape, kidnapping, domestic violence, homelessness, and the devastating loss of my best friend and grandmother during the COVID-19 pandemic. I’ve endured heartbreak, including the loss of a baby and the challenge of becoming a mother again with no savings and no support. Despite it all, I have never stopped pushing forward. These life experiences have shaped me, but they have never defined me. What defines me is my refusal to give up, my love for my son, and my desire to build a stable, meaningful future. What motivates me most is creating a better life for my child and turning my pain into purpose. I know what it means to feel voiceless, unsupported, and unseen. That’s why I am committed to building a career where I can care for others, earn financial independence, and eventually give back in bigger ways to my community. Pursuing a career in dental assisting is a key step toward that goal. Dental assisting appeals to me because it is hands-on, skill-based, and service-oriented. It allows me to directly support patients and be part of a healthcare team that helps people feel better, healthier, and more confident. I’ve always had a heart for helping others, and this field gives me the opportunity to do that every day in a structured, meaningful way. I’m excited about learning clinical procedures, mastering technical tools, and becoming someone patients can rely on for comfort and care. This career offers the stability I need to support my son, but more importantly, it offers me a chance to grow and lead by example. My ultimate dream is to go beyond the dental field and open a postpartum care center and a domestic violence shelter. I want to educate women about pregnancy, breastfeeding, and natural birth, and give them the kind of support I never had. I also want to offer a safe space for women escaping abuse—because I know how hard it is to start over, and how critical it is to have someone believe in you. Everything I’ve been through has taught me compassion, patience, and the power of perseverance. Dental assisting is more than a career goal for me—it’s a doorway to healing, growth, and a future where I can care for others while building a life filled with purpose. I am ready to work hard, learn deeply, and use this opportunity as a foundation for something even greater.

I am a woman shaped by pain, strengthened by survival, and driven by purpose. Today, I am pursuing a career in dental assisting—a step that represents more than just job security. It’s a symbol of how far I’ve come and a foundation for how far I plan to go. After surviving sexual assault, domestic violence, homelessness, and unimaginable loss, I am no longer just trying to survive. I am building a life rooted in healing, stability, and service—not only for myself and my son, but for countless others like us who deserve support and safety. Dental assisting has given me a tangible path to independence. I’ve always had a passion for caring for others, and this field allows me to be hands-on, skilled, and impactful in people’s lives. I take pride in learning the science behind oral health, understanding patient care, and mastering precision-based techniques. I plan to continue my education, grow my clinical expertise, and become a trusted professional who brings both warmth and competence to every patient I serve. But my vision goes far beyond the dental office. My life experiences have lit a fire in me to serve women—especially those who are struggling through the same battles I’ve fought and overcome. I am determined to one day open a postpartum care center that provides education, empowerment, and emotional support for new mothers. I want to teach women about their bodies, breastfeeding, natural labor and delivery, and the mental health changes that come after giving birth. No woman should have to navigate that vulnerable time alone, especially those coming from trauma or poverty. In addition, I am committed to creating a safe haven for survivors of domestic violence—a shelter where women and their children can heal, rebuild, and restart. I know what it feels like to be trapped in fear with nowhere to turn. I also know the freedom that comes when someone finally believes in you and offers a way out. I want to be that someone. I want to give women the resources, education, and tools they need to not only escape abuse but to reclaim their futures with dignity. Everything I do—whether it's studying dental procedures or volunteering in the community—is guided by one mission: to transform pain into purpose. I am determined to master my trade, expand my impact, and show my son and others that no matter how dark life may get, we always have the power to rise. With the right support, I won’t just change my own life—I’ll help change many.

I am a woman shaped by pain, strengthened by survival, and driven by purpose. Today, I am pursuing a career in dental assisting—a step that represents more than just job security. It’s a symbol of how far I’ve come and a foundation for how far I plan to go. After surviving sexual assault, domestic violence, homelessness, and unimaginable loss, I am no longer just trying to survive. I am building a life rooted in healing, stability, and service—not only for myself and my son, but for countless others like us who deserve support and safety. Dental assisting has given me a tangible path to independence. I’ve always had a passion for caring for others, and this field allows me to be hands-on, skilled, and impactful in people’s lives. I take pride in learning the science behind oral health, understanding patient care, and mastering precision-based techniques. I plan to continue my education, grow my clinical expertise, and become a trusted professional who brings both warmth and competence to every patient I serve. But my vision goes far beyond the dental office. My life experiences have lit a fire in me to serve women—especially those who are struggling through the same battles I’ve fought and overcome. I am determined to one day open a postpartum care center that provides education, empowerment, and emotional support for new mothers. I want to teach women about their bodies, breastfeeding, natural labor and delivery, and the mental health changes that come after giving birth. No woman should have to navigate that vulnerable time alone, especially those coming from trauma or poverty. In addition, I am committed to creating a safe haven for survivors of domestic violence—a shelter where women and their children can heal, rebuild, and restart. I know what it feels like to be trapped in fear with nowhere to turn. I also know the freedom that comes when someone finally believes in you and offers a way out. I want to be that someone. I want to give women the resources, education, and tools they need to not only escape abuse but to reclaim their futures with dignity. Everything I do—whether it's studying dental procedures or volunteering in the community—is guided by one mission: to transform pain into purpose. I am determined to master my trade, expand my impact, and show my son and others that no matter how dark life may get, we always have the power to rise. With the right support, I won’t just change my own life—I’ll help change many.

There have been many moments in my life when giving up seemed like the only option. I have survived experiences that nearly broke me—being raped twice, kidnapped, enduring domestic violence, losing my best friend and grandmother during the COVID-19 pandemic, and facing homelessness. At one point, I found myself pregnant with no savings, no stable home, and no clear path forward. The pain was overwhelming. But I knew I couldn’t let these circumstances define the rest of my life—or my son’s future. Instead of giving in to despair, I made the decision to fight. I reached out for help, even when it felt uncomfortable. I found a shelter that supported women in crisis, got into therapy, and connected with organizations that could help me start rebuilding my life. Each day, I made a choice—to wake up, to keep going, to believe in the possibility of something better. One of the hardest but most powerful things I’ve done is learning how to ask for help and turn it into strength. Through these trials, I discovered my capacity for leadership—not the kind that comes with a title, but the kind rooted in service, empathy, and action. I began volunteering with Hosea Feed the Hungry, an organization that feeds, clothes, and supports families in need. It gave me a chance to give back and stand beside people facing situations I knew all too well. I treated every person I served with the dignity and compassion I had once longed for. That experience reinforced my purpose: to use my story not just to survive, but to inspire and empower others. Beyond volunteering, I have taken on informal leadership in my community by mentoring young women who are pregnant, struggling with trauma, or escaping unsafe situations. I offer them a safe space, guidance, and encouragement. I want them to know they are not alone—and that healing is possible. My goal is to pursue a degree in psychology or social work so I can become a trauma-informed counselor and continue to lead with heart and purpose. Leadership, to me, is about standing up when it’s easier to stay down. It’s about using what you’ve learned through pain to bring light to others. I’ve learned that resilience isn’t about never falling—it’s about getting back up, again and again, and then reaching out to lift others up with you. I plan to continue doing exactly that through education, advocacy, and service for the rest of my life.