Word of the Day
The cool dripping of the melting popsicle in my small hand did not distract me from being enraptured by the movie airing on the television. However, my mother’s creole interjections certainly startled me, which led me to discover the inadvertent stain that I had created on the sofa. I quickly grabbed a paper towel from the kitchen and started wiping off the stain, though it permeated through the sofa as I kept rubbing it intensely. At the sight of her face, it occurred to me that she was not in fact irritated, but amused by the situation. “Where do you see yourself in five years?”, I heard from the movie on the television echoing behind me. Intrigued by the question, I asked my mother what her response would be. “In life, you always gotta be flexible”, she answered with a nurturing tone in her voice. At that age, I was prompted to add another word to my vocabulary, flexibility.
I did not continually abide by the new word I learned. Growing up, I consistently attempted to plan every element of my life. Before going to bed, I would typically plan out my breakfast, lunch, and dinner to the last detail for the next day. My constant planning, a common subject of the ongoing pleasantries exchanged in our family, also made me very reluctant to change in regards to various decisions I had to make, no matter how insignificant. On some occasions, my rigidity worked out for the best when it came to tackling an arduous task, or standing firm in my values. Nevertheless, this singular trait of mine had caused me to be oblivious to the beauty of adaptability.
As I grew older, I reflected on the notion of flexibility, particularly after my mother had passed. I recalled the time she was cooking up some crispy griot alongside some fried plantains for me, and I inveighed against the meal having a specific taste dissimilar to the previous time she had made it. Upon my stark criticism, she refuted kindly, “change is never a bad thing, it's just different than before, kaloo”. Even with the departure of my mother, I am still left with her sayings etched in my memory about the significance of being conformable through life’s inconveniences.
In addition, the upheaval of COVID-19 changed the world's life cycle, along with mine. The day before the administration announced a presumably two-week leave from school, I recall sitting in our set place in the lunch cafeteria with my friends, the corner near the coffee vending machine. Immediately after we finished eating, we dashed to the soccer field, sat down on the grass under the umbrage provided by the trees, and shared mindless conversations followed by contagious laughter. Needless to say, the pandemic stole these thrills away from me. Nonetheless, being isolated from my friends simply fortified our friendship, as we started to FaceTime every so often. Through this difficult year, my adjustability to the unprecedented circumstances made me realize that certain benefits stemmed from it.
Many years later, after leaving an orange popsicle stain on my mother’s favorite white sofa and remembering her utter imperturbability to the situation, I’ve learned to welcome flexibility, a word I feared in the past but now has transformed into my greatest asset. The days seem quite fugacious as they pass by in an instant, and one can never be too sure about what will occur next. I do not dwell on what did not go as planned, still, I do my part and stride blissfully through the sinuous path of life.