Life has its own way of showing you your purpose. My experiences, decisions, and curveballs have shaped not only who I am, but also the career path and the impact I hope to make in the world and the people around me.
In January 2023, my mother was diagnosed with stage 4 triple-negative breast cancer after delaying care for years due to deep mistrust of the healthcare system. Being a Black woman in America, her concerns were shaped by historical and ongoing disparities in medical treatment.
In our community, nurses are to black women as the police are to black men. I came home from university, enrolled in a two year school, and stood beside her through chemotherapy, hospital visits, and recovery. Then, in January 2025, she was diagnosed with two brain tumors following months of severe symptoms. She underwent brain surgery and radiation, while managing bipolar disorder, which added further complexity to her care. During this time, I became her primary support system is coordinating appointments, managing medications, and advocating for her needs within the healthcare system. My mother was a strong resilient woman, even though she was able to remove the cancer from her breasts, her brain, and even had some spread to her lungs. On July 17, 2025, we drove from Illinois to New York and she was able to celebrate her 50th birthday around her family in New York and had one of the best birthday bashes our family had hosted. It was the happiest she had been in a long time, and she was able to reunite with family she wasn't able to see in years, and she partied like it would be her last, even though we didn't know it would be.
Simultaneously, I balanced a full academic course load while working towards my Associate's degree, and was employed full time. I attended classes from hospital waiting rooms, completed assignments late at night, and studied between medical appointments while working 40 hours a week supporting my mother. I had earned my associate’s degree in Fall 2024 and after I finish my bachelors in Psychology, I will enter an accelerated BSN program. This summer I have even been accepted to a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA) program.
On the morning of November 17, 2025, my mother passed away in our home. I had been the one watching her that night, found her, and had called the police while my father did CPR. Through these challenges, I discovered my purpose. I am pursuing a career in nursing, with the goal of becoming a pediatric nurse and eventually a nurse midwife, because I want to provide the kind of care my family needed that establishes a trust in the medical field from birth. I am especially committed to addressing disparities in maternal healthcare, particularly among Black women, who are disproportionately affected by poor health outcomes. I want to be a provider who listens, advocates, and ensures that patients feel seen, heard, and respected.
I want to contribute to a healthcare system that prioritizes trust, education, and accessibility. By combining my clinical training with my personal experiences, I aim to support families during their most vulnerable moments and help reduce the gaps in care that continue to affect underserved communities.
Robert F. Lawson’s legacy of service reflects the kind of life I strive to lead one dedicated to improving the lives of others. My journey has required resilience, sacrifice, determination, and strengthened my commitment to making a difference. Through my future career in nursing and with this scholarship, I will continue to serve, advocate, and uplift those in need.