Although I have no recollection of my infancy, my parents have reminded me through the years that it was the most fearful time of their life. I was born with a rare and complex congenital heart defect called hypoplastic left heart syndrome. In layman’s terms this meant that my heart was not formed correctly. Seven days after my birth I went into cardiac failure and had open heart surgery to repair the defects. Having a lengthy and complicated heart bypass procedure exposed my brain to stress and the lack of oxygen is known to hinder brain function. My parents were informed by my surgeons to expect lifelong cognitive delays and impairments.
As I entered childhood, the physician's medical assessments were my reality. My elementary school years consisted of my many developmental and educational challenges. I was a special needs student with autism, ADHD, and also required occupational, physical, and speech therapy routinely. I rode a special bus and was placed in learning disability classrooms. I was aware that I was “different” than my peers and they certainly didn’t let me forget it. I was constantly bullied for wearing a scoliosis brace, apparent speech issues, and inability to perform at grade level. Every day was a struggle which took a toll on my emotional health, and I was plagued with severe anxiety.
By fourth grade, my parents moved to a new town in hopes that a fresh environment and change of school would turn the tide. This relocation brought a sense of hope and new beginnings. During my first year here, I struggled educationally but the community accepted me with open arms and understanding. My teacher, who became my mentor, was also the town’s Boy Scout troop leader. I joined the troop, made many friends, contributed to my community and gained self-confidence. One of the most invaluable experiences was giving back to my community by doing volunteer work. What I’ve learned from helping the homeless is the importance of compassion and being kind in a world that often can be cruel. There are many people less fortunate than myself, and I find it rewarding to give others in need a helping hand.
I had many obstacles to overcome but I was determined to prevail. I knew in my heart that I could achieve much more than what was anticipated. My teachers offered extra help during after school hours and I took the opportunity whenever possible. I spent many hours studying my curriculums outside of the classroom in order to improve my grades. Due to my learning disabilities this was a major challenge, but I had a strong will to succeed and be accepted. By the time I reached my high school years I began to reap the benefits of my work ethic. I was able to participate in the town’s baseball league for several years, and even though I had limited athletic ability, I learned how to be a team player and support my peers.
With diligence, determination, and proper study habits I was able to excel in honors classes, achieve exceptional grades, and was invited to participate in the honor society. The road to success is not easy, it takes perseverance, hard work, commitment and most importantly believing in yourself. Life can make you feel discouraged with its continual challenges but there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. I am grateful to be one of the few that beat the odds by refusing to be a statistic. Today I stand, proud and optimistic, ready for the next chapter of my story.
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When I was a child, all things "tech" appealed to me, and I knew at a young age that I would want to pursue a career in a technology field. At the time, I was unaware of annual salaries and responsibilities, but I knew early on that technology would play an important role in my life. My future plan for the fall of 2022 is to attend college and major in my dream career - Cybersecurity. My initial attraction to this career was driven by my love for technology, and though I want to create solutions to cyber threats, there is also a human element. It is my hope to impact our world by becoming an "avenger" and taking a stand to fight against cyber-crime. In this field, there is a battle between good and evil, and I hope to make a difference by becoming a cybersecurity hero. Receiving a bachelor's degree, would not only prove to others, but more importantly myself, that I am more than my disabilities.
I have been a member of Boy Scouts of America, Troop 63, since elementary school. Over the past several years, I have volunteered for various food drives, donated my childhood toys to local churches, put together health kits for the needy, distributed clothes to the homeless, honored veterans that passed away by placing flags near each tombstone, and helped clean local churches and neighborhoods, installed/raised/lowered American flags at local markets and our community schools, shopped locally, and displayed leadership by helping younger scouts. Immersing myself in my community and giving back to a place I call “home”, has given me a sense of purpose and identity. I contribute much of my personal growth to my community, and I am so grateful to now be accepted - just as I am.
I feed my curiosity outside of school by engaging in activities with my troop and friends. Admittedly, I give back to my community, but they have given me so much more in return. I am thankful for Boy Scouts of America for helping to build my character and showing me how to be a positive role model. Through my own personal struggles, I have learned the importance of community, fellowship, connecting with and supporting others. My father, who is a member of the Marine Corps, dedicated years of his life to help others, and he has inspired me to do the same.