I am a single mother of three wonderful boys and also a late college entrant. I re-entered college for the first time in 2011. I was working full-time in finance and accounting in the oil and gas industry in Houston and raising my three sons who were then 16, 12, and 4 years old. They saw me work many evenings, nights, and weekends on homework and projects. After dinner each night they would go to play with toys or video games and I would be at the kitchen table. Often, I would implore them to "go to college the first time" once they had completed high school; as juggling a career, raising children as a single mother, and going to college online was a huge challenge. I graduated cum laude with a Bachelor's degree in Communication in May of 2015.
Now I am returning to college for my MBA, while still working full time. So much has changed from that first time in college, but much has remained the same. My oldest son is now in college, also a late college entrant. My youngest son is in junior high school and often has homework now. There are some fun nights where we sit together after dinner at the table and do homework together. It gives us a common struggle to commiserate together, talk about strategies to handle big projects, or talk about how we like some teachers'/professors' teaching styles and assignments and others... not so much!
I still work full time, so everything is a budgeting and balancing act. I read textbooks on my lunch break and listen to them - if they are available - on my commute. I don't spend a lot of time watching tv or scrolling social media. Any time that I'm not working or studying, I'm spending with my boys - playing board games, trying to play video games, or watching them play. I say "trying to play video games" because no matter how often they invite me, I'm just horrible at them! But it is great to be able to meet them where they are at and spend time doing things they love.
Financially it is tough. As a single mom, I have a limited budget even while working full time, so I've taken out loans to start my first semester of my MBA. I recently discovered Posh Mark and have been selling old speciality clothes to make extra money. Just 5 - 8 sales can cover the cost of a textbook! I also have a side hustle. When holidays roll around I bake speciality cookies, candies and meringues. I have to be creative each holiday and come up with new flavours and themes. Of course, at Christmas, this also helps boost the present buying budget.
My long term dream career is to be the director of a non-profit organization that helps single mothers. Early in my time as a mom, we were very poor and I didn't understand all the resources available to me. We struggled, often to just put food on the table or pay the light bill. There were, and still are, good programs to help moms, but they were spread out, confusing and overwhelming. I really needed a "mom" type person to help me navigate those waters and walk me through what I needed to do to access the network of services that exist. I believe my MBA will give me the tools to launch this non-profit and help other moms that were just like me.
Winning this scholarship would lift the financial burden of a full semester of classes pursuing my MBA. It would mean so much mentally and emotionally to be chosen as the LIttle Bundle Supermom winner - to know that someone believed in me and my dream enough to support me financially. A little encouragement goes a long way for single moms, as we are the ones doing the encouraging most of the time. I would be forever grateful to win your support and encouragement!