Rugby family means so much to me. Growing up in a split family, I learned early on that blood isn’t what makes a family, it’s the heart. My team at UW-Eau Claire has shown me over and over what real family looks like. From the moment I walked onto the pitch as a nervous freshman, unsure of what I was doing, I was met with encouragement, support, and acceptance. That instant feeling of belonging gave me confidence I hadn’t felt in any other sport or setting.
In high school, I played a few sports, but I never felt the same passion, connection, and loyalty I have with these girls. Even when we face other teams, we play with respect and sportsmanship, showing that competition does not have to come at the expense of friendship. Rugby has taught me patience, resilience, and how to trust and communicate under pressure. These are lessons I carry beyond the field.
One example of family on the rugby team for me happened last semester. My mom faced a dangerous brain tumor, and I had to go home to support her through surgery and recovery. I was scared not just about her health, but about falling behind in school and losing my starting spot. My coaches and teammates immediately reassured me and kept me involved, checking in constantly even after I returned. Experiencing their care reminded me how meaningful it is to have a family who genuinely supports each other, no matter the circumstances.
Part of what makes rugby special is the tradition of adopting a rookie. When I first started, I was adopted by an upperclassman who guided me, answered my questions, and helped me adjust to the team. Now I get to pass that on to new players, helping them feel at home and supported just as I was. Moments like this make me proud to be part of a team where mentorship, trust, and care are central to who we are.
I also love how rugby has pushed me to grow. I started as a scared freshman who barely knew the rules, and within a year, I earned a spot on the starting lineup, competing at the national level and helping our team take second in the nation. The pride I feel does not just come from the results. It comes from the effort, teamwork, and support that made it possible.
Looking ahead, I hope to continue growing as a player and take on a leadership role within the team. I want to guide and inspire newer players, support them on and off the field, and help foster the same tight-knit culture that has shaped me. More than anything, I want to keep contributing to a team where every player feels valued, encouraged, and part of a family.
Rugby has given me more than just a sport. It has given me a home, a sense of purpose, and a family I can rely on no matter what. The lessons I’ve learned, the friendships I’ve built, and the experiences I’ve had will continue to shape me, and I hope to honor my rugby family every time I step on the field.