For 13 years of my life, though so much around me was ever changing, soccer was a constant I could always count on. After being at the same club with the same team for approximately nine years, however, a new club was formed which all of my teammates immediately jumped at. I was extremely grateful to everything my initial club had given me, and was not about to stab my coaches in the back. My coaches were the reason I have become so passionate about everything I do, and I was not about to let that go unrecognized. This simple act of staying earned me great respect from my coaches and club directors, so much so that I was offered a coaching position myself in place of playing. Though looking back at this time in my life seems almost laughable, I had felt great distress leaving a sport that had given so much to me. Fortunately, my coaches lifted me out of this rut; I was still able to be around soccer but I could still be loyal to my past club.
I am immensely grateful for this opportunity gifted to me from my coaches, as I now have the ability to influence the lives of so many children. As the director of tots soccer at Erie Premier Sports and an assistant coach for the “older” gunners program, I have got to experience so much positivity within the past year that I otherwise would have missed out on. Since the children I head coach are so young, with ages ranging from two to four, I am only with them for one practice a week for at most an hour. However, through conversation with parents, I have found that this minimal amount of time has made an incredible impact on the children whom I coach. For example, I have been told that children look forward to coming to soccer each week as it gives them an opportunity to smile. Now, I am not entirely aware of these kids’ situations outside of soccer, but I do know that for an hour every week, they are able to experience fun, something that every kid should be able to do. I have also been able to watch kids fall in love with soccer, something that I once experienced thirteen years ago, and I anticipate that many of them will continue to play soccer throughout their childhood and beyond, giving them the ability to learn lessons in teamwork, passion, and determination. I fully intend to continue coaching during college and beyond; I have been greatly impacted by many coaches throughout my many years of playing, and now I want to give back by being on the other side of that trade.