You have to be odd to be number one. These words have shaped my experience and life.
I don't have any standout events in my life that I could point to and state, "This is who I am". I've experienced my neighbor's house lighting on fire on Christmas, elementary school bullying, and more, yet I sit here today not being defined or shaped by a singular event. Instead, I've found a way to shape my life experiences into making me a different and better person.
The values of resilience, self-belief, and kindness have appeared in my life via my immigrant parents. They've had their own struggles from time to time, such as my mom dealing with an abusive father-in-law. I've watched my parents grow through different struggles, and they've come out even better and as true role models for a young, misfit Indian boy. My parents have made me more proud of my background than any athletic or academic achievements I've received, and they've taught me many things and one stands out. You have to be odd to be number one. My mom has always pushed me to be greater, being proud of my straight A's but encouraging me at the same time to push for more like a job or an internship. My dad has always been willing to put in effort to get me where I need to be, whether it's a ride to a tennis tournament or paying for private tutoring lessons. My parents have shaped who I was yesterday, who I am today, and who I will be tomorrow.
In comparison to others’ obstacles, my lack of self esteem may seem insignificant, but to me, it was life-changing. Around the start of quarantine, I was insecure about my weight. This insecurity clouded my mood everyday, wishing I wasn't in the body I was in. However, with plenty of time during school from home, I took initiative, joined the gym and I started to lose weight. I started to feel more confident and trying new things didn’t feel as scary. Since then, I’ve joined clubs with public speaking like Model UN and I tried out for tennis after never playing before.
Attending Purdue University in the fall, my aim is to graduate with at least a bachelor’s in computer engineering. Achieving a B.S. in Computer Engineering will support me in attaining my goals by setting me up for a profession in the field where I can be part of a team leading the nation into a better technological future. By learning skills in digital hardware, computer design, and more, I will have a wide range of careers available with sustainable pay, such as being a computer hardware engineer or a computer systems engineer. This will allow me to do good, help people, and improve efficiency in the field.
I've taken more risks and challenges in my academic career and more by not being scared to fail and instead being excited to learn. In college, I plan to stick to the same mentality: you have to be odd to be number one. Being number one is a personal goal and it's a continuous journey for me to follow, and I believe I'll be able to make a positive impact in my community, family, and eventually the world on my journey as a computer engineer.