I am blessed to have grown up in a home with my brother and parents that is loving and supportive yet high levels of accomplishments were expected. I always want to do my very best to show my parents my appreciation and it is their examples in the face of adversity that motivates me to push beyond any challenge. My mom particularly set a standard for me to believe and have faith beyond what I physically can see and to always maintain a positive attitude. She raised us with love and compassion and modeled the importance of caring for one another.
I share all of this because while my mother was in the midst of recovering from multiple auto accidents, I was also impacted due to the noticeable changes resulting from each incident. Seeing my once busy and vibrant mom deal with the stress of her injuries, loss of two jobs, and reduced to being driven everywhere by others filled me with sadness. But in true form, she always assured me that she was “Still Standing” and everything would work out.
My mom’s first accident was four years ago. She was sitting at a four-way stop sign, just a few feet from the driveway to her job, when a distracted driver rear-ended her car. She sustained a concussion/post-concussion syndrome, vestibular/balance problems, convergence requiring prisms and tint in her glasses, bulging discs in her neck requiring multiple injections, and severe nausea she needed daily medication to manage.
Because of her symptoms, I spent many evenings assisting her up the stairs, driving her to doctor’s appointments during my school breaks, and helping her with home exercises.. I learned about convergence, closed-head injuries, post-concussion syndrome, and speech therapy. I marveled at my mom’s fortitude and upbeat attitude while dealing with so many life-changing injuries.
Because of her compassionate nature, we were able to help one another through her unexpected health challenges. While I never imagined taking care of my mother at that point in her life, her example gave me the blueprint for thoughtfully assisting her in recovering. We both found comfort in one another’s encouragement, kind words and care.
During this time, she kept up with all of my academic, extra-curricular, and church commitments, finding ways to celebrate my accomplishments and encourage me when things didn’t go the way I planned. Even though it would be easy to justify being an average student, it is my mother’s inspiration that fuels my drive to always give my best. When I expressed an interest in Journalism for my sophomore year project, she arranged for me to meet with a college friend who was a morning anchor at an NBC affiliate in Detroit, Michigan.
On a blustery winter morning, I headed to WDIV-Local 4 where I had the opportunity to be a staff member for the day. Morning Show anchor Rhonda Walker and her colleagues shared their typical workday with me and instantly sparked my love for broadcast journalism. As a result, I became a staff member at my high school’s television and radio stations working as an anchor, producer, reporter and writer. Last year, I was selected as a national Emma Bowen Media Fellow and I was excited to learn my assignment would be at the station where my journalism story began - WDIV-Local 4.
I was equally excited when, after almost three years, my mom found a new job and ways to manage her “new normal” at work. Her employer was supportive and provided special screens to filter the light in her cubicle. She even began driving again to work. Just as all was going well, she was broadsided just 3 blocks from home by another distracted driver last March. Unfortunately, she was hit on the driver’s side of her car and her injuries included a sprained ankle, torn tendons in her wrist, a shoulder injury, a concussion, and further damage to her vision. While extremely frustrated and upset, she continues to persevere.
After college graduation, I plan to seek out reporting positions with a television station, continue my work with the non-profit I founded, and begin graduate school to obtain my Masters and Ph.D. in Journalism. During my senior year of college, I will begin my search for a television morning anchor or reporter position in a mid-sized market. While anchoring the morning news, I also hope to cover college sports. These positions would provide the foundation to transition to becoming a National Collegiate Athletic Association (NCAA) play-by-play analyst. My ultimate goal is to become a commentator with the Women’s National Basketball Association (WNBA).
After gaining work experience, I will pursue advanced degrees in Journalism. My research interests include understanding how social media impacts the accurate reporting of news and the disparities of health communication in poor communities. I want to use my desire to teach to mentor students who have a passion for creative storytelling and want to make a difference.
I also plan to continue contributing to my community. My experience as a basketball player along with seeing teammates struggle academically with no affordable outside resources has contributed to my strong belief in the need to provide safe, academically enriching and supportive environments for girls to advance to their potential in sports, particularly basketball. Recognizing this need and having the desire to level the playing field, I founded Life and Basketball (LAB) to make a long-term impact on girls like me who want to be student athletes and give back to their respective communities.
The strength of my mom during her recovery has made me laser-focused on the present and her example provides the foundation for me to make my college dreams and career goals a reality. I hope to break barriers as a journalist, make generation differences in the lives of young girls, and become a respected college professor. I look forward to writing the next chapters of my life and believe there will be many happy endings.